i am 14 yrs old egyptian girl , i have got no self esteem at all , speciallywhen it comes to the way i look like , soo , can any oif you tell me how can i make sure i look beautifull????
2007-04-27 03:55:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
The best way to look beautiful is to KNOW you are beautiful. Learn to love yourself and what you were blessed with. Now is the time to start too. Trust me. I'm 26, and I have major issues with this...so love yourself early on & your life will be easier. Don't let anyone tell you anything negative about you. You can't change the looks you were given, but you can change your attitude. Know you're beautiful both inside & out, and it will show!!!!
2007-04-27 04:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this but you have to feel beautiful from the inside first before you can feel beautiful on the outside. Trust me looks aren't the only thing that makes a person have a better self esteem. Even the most beautiful people have insecurites and even low self-esteems.
You have to become comfortable with your self and be confident abou the person you are. There is nothing more attractive than a person that is confident and secure with themselves. I guess to take steps to get to that stage you have to stop comparing yourself with the other girls in your school (perhaps the ones that are getting the most attention). Think of why you are different and what makes you special as a person, eg. you're smart, have a specific talent, beautiful eyes etc. Once you find the quailities you like about yourself, thrive on those because trust me EVERYONE has insecurites, even the most beautiful girl is school does. Once you stop worrying about how you compare to other girls you can start focusing on yourself then you can start to build your self esteem b/c no one wants to be average or like everyone else, find what makes you standout and don't say there isn't b/c I know there is, you just have to find it.
2007-04-27 04:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ainman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daily Affirmations worked for me - Every morning take 5 minutes to look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself "I am beautiful and any guy would be soo lucky to have me! I am gorgeous just the way God made me. I am so happy that I am me. Today I am going to take the world by storm and they wont know what hit em!" and other things to that effect. Say it will attitude and like you mean it girl! Repeat once or twice every day. After a few weeks you will have improved self esteem and confidence.
2007-04-27 04:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Angel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is beautiful in their own right, once you start believing in your self that will shine thru and everyone else will notice too. Just get up everyday in a positive mood, play up your best features and take the world by storm! Just make your mind up that you have lots to offer, dont negitavly focus or dwell on any one thing (like looks) make the best of what you have cause you have lots to be happy about! If you shy away from others because of something you percieve as a shortcoming no one else will have an opportunity to get to know you and see how beautiful you really are!
2007-04-27 04:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by just me #1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i can give u a few tips. when u look good u feel good. maybe u should try to switch ur style up a lil bit. im a sneakers & t shirt kinda girl but im tryin the pumps & heels look for the summer. maybe u could try sum hi lites or a different hair cut. if u wear makeup i dont no since ur only 14 but if u do keep it natural i luv MAC products. neways for the self esteem issue, NO1 IS PERFECT u have to ACCEPT UR IMPERFECTIONS and move on!!!!!!! if u need to lose weight or tone up then go for it but DONT TRY TO BE SUMTHING UR NOT if ur not a size 0 dont try to be curvy woman are BEAUTIFUL. eat healthy, drink lots of water surround urself with postive people (i know this sounds like alot since ur only 14 but in time ull understand) think positive dont wake up in the morning & the 1st thing u think is i dont like how i look tell urself ur the SH*t!!!!!!!
2007-04-27 04:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suffering teen "angst" and it's pretty much normal. A lot of kids have the insecurities you describe. Even the ones you look at and think they couldn't possibly. It's true and it's part of being in that space between child and aduthood. I am sure many kids admire you as you admire others. When you move out of that space all that stuff will seem so foolish. Have a good day.
2007-04-27 04:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by Madmunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14. Everyone around the world is uncomfortable and worried about their looks at 14. Just know that you look great whatever you are wearing, doing to your hair. You'll grow into your self confidence with time.
2007-04-27 04:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone has qualities about themselves they do and do not like but you just have to live with them! But you should be yourself and not let anyone get you down...you might even get a boyfriend soon!!! Keep your head up high and never let anyone bring you down or push you around because if you
change for others you wont be happy with yourself and that's the main thing good luck Hun!xoxox
2007-04-27 04:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I loooove middle eastern looking girls they are beautiful. Unfortunatley there are some racists but look at the girl who was on Americas Next Top Model! Put some highlights in your hair, pamper yourself, get boyfriends! <3 Melanie myspace.com/thatspoiledbella
2007-04-27 04:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Brunette Barbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you're egyptian!!! that's sooo pretty!!! Anyways, first start with your body....definetly lose weight and tone your abs....then maybe since ur probably tan you can add some brozniung powder like gurlain or bobbi brown then some mascara n eyeliner wiht lipgloss and sparkles!!
2007-04-27 04:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋