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does that mean you messed up as a father?(just asking my daughteris 10). always hear as the old joke your only job as a dad is too keep your daughter off of the brass pole

2007-04-27 02:07:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

okay some of you are just jack@$$ im not sayin my daughter is gonna be one im saying the potential of anyones daughter being one there and i want to make sure that doesnt happen. that fact some of you actually picture a 10 yr old on the pole is whats wrong.

2007-04-27 02:17:45 · update #1

19 answers

i'm pretty sure if you're worried about things like that, you're doing just fine.

2007-04-27 06:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I think you should be very supportive of what
ever your daughter decides to become but
really you should give her the best education
money can buy and try to steer her on the
right path in life..

I honestly don't think that means you failed as
a father, she's only 10 there's many years a
head of her and you so do your best and get
that thought out of your head or it might come
true!

2007-04-27 02:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

not in any way do i think of stripping is cool. although, there are some women individuals available that truly income from stripping nonetheless not the accepted public. some women individuals are working their way by using college or different secondary training. because of loss of parenting and abilities, they might locate no opposite direction to earn as plenty money than to apply their God-given sources. ask your self this, if there grew to become into no probability at scholarships or provides, no family help gadget, and your selection grew to become into McDonalds or stripping, What might you pick for? Its a much-fetched concept, even though it does happen to human beings. in my opinion, i might bypass be a stripper and that i grew to become into raised with morals and values. I have no background of drug and alcohol abuse the two. I in simple terms think of stripping may be the less complicated street if performed appropriate. additionally, there are various palces taht you do not even might desire to take all your outfits off, in simple terms right down to a washing greater healthful. in this occasion it may be a distinctive for me. If i'm able to run around on the coastline or the pool, i might desire to gratefully dance on a level mutually as adult men throw their very own youngster's college tuitions at me. in any case, stripping isn't for everybody, even though it does serve some human beings properly.

2016-10-30 10:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Let's be reasonable. If your daughter grows up thinking that using her body is the only way to get approval from men, then you have failed her. However, she may think it is glamourous due to media, movies, mags and all the other things making us as women feel...like %$$#!!! But the adult sex industry is filled with women with low self esteem, money troubles and drug habits ( not all strippers- but ALOT have these problems) Teach your daughter to be intelligent, strong , and to know she is VALUABLE and you wont have to worry about her becoming a whore for $.

2007-04-27 03:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

a long long time ago, I was an entertainer (go go dancing not stripping and there was no pole) my father was still not proud, I did it to put myself through college. He is proud of me now, but didn't like men looking at me naked or not. He didn't feel it was his fault but he did say "I thought I raised you better than that". I don't regret it because it did pay for my education.

I have good morals because of my parents, probly why I didn't dance naked, but when it was all said and done, I am a better person because of my dad, even though he's a drunk now.

2007-04-27 02:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0 0

Probably. You always hear stories about how the dad left, he wasn't there, he was too strict, etc. and drove her to the pole.

Whaaa??? Ur daughter is 10? Yes, you messed up big time then. Sicko.

2007-04-27 02:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0 0

Aww Honey! Sounds like you are right on that path if you look at your little princess and your hopes for her future are that she doesn't become a stripper!
Geez!

Sweetie, have you considered a higher education for yourself? This would set a great example for her....perhaps you could even mention college for the poor thing...give her a chance to move away from home sooner. :)

2007-04-27 02:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Wow! Your daughter is ten and you are already thinking of her becoming a stripper in the future?! That's a whole lot of messed up thinking right there.

2007-04-27 02:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Wow, I had no idea. NO, I was ignored by the old man and pregnant, kept the child, at 16 instead.
Same deal, just one exclusive customer, don't you think?
In desperate need of some kind of attention, but conservative about it!
So, pay attention.
The right kind of attention.
That is a great insurance policy!

2007-04-27 02:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0 0

Some girls end up as strippers not simply because their parents failed to provide for them but its because their parents failed to teach them the values and morals proper to each and every human being. Parents should guide their kids into the right direction more than just simply providing for them.

2007-04-27 02:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by ted15washburn 2 · 0 0

you look at your daughter at 10 as a potential stripper...somehow I thing that logic is weird and wrong of you

2007-04-27 02:10:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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