This girl who I am kinda friends with accused me of stuffing my bra. I said "Your nuts" and walked away. The problem is that I do. I am like totally flat and wear a padded bra and stuff it to fill it out. What do I say if she say's somethign agian. I have no idea how she might know. I am so nervous, I pad my bra alot and woudl be humiliated if people found out. I can't just stop because I would go from like a C cup down to a small A cup. What do I do? Please give me some advice.
2007-04-27 01:07:51 · 16 answers · asked by sarasshops 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
We should all be happy with the body God has given us. However I must admit to giving it some"help" sometimes just as you have.
I will usually try to avoid questions about the "help" but sometimes you can't. And if its a close friend I just admit it and move on. I like the way I look and don't care that I have a bit of help.
But if its someone whom you think will spread it around just laugh it off. Maybe you can say "You think I stuff? I wish!" I think this falls between true and false but is not an out right lie.
And if someone does tell others, they were not a very good friend to begin with.
Good Luck.
2007-04-27 05:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by paintingj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was in high school in art class i looked over the table at a girl and i could see she padded her bra. she was a very nice sweet girl and when i saw that i was nervous to ask her out because of course she is already nervous about what people think about her by padding her bra.
if it is not too late i think it best to stop doing that because it is not the real you and friends will be jealous because they are not as big as you and they will know it is false.
I have never met a woman without some kind of breasts and small breasts are very attractive. Big breasts seem too soft and mushy and flop all over. I do not like big breasts. Small breasts stay firm and are cute.
2007-04-27 01:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by Saint Lucipher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. This is a complicated situation.... Okay well first of all you know that this was the wrong thing to do and that you shouldn't have to worry about your bra size, people will like you for who you are. But since you are in this situation I would just deny it if she brings it up again and ask her what her problem is or what she has against you. I would try to stop doing it too.. Don't be afraid, there is people out there that will not care about your breast size. ; ]
2007-04-27 01:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you pad your bra in the first place? there's nth wrong with being less endowed as other heavy chested girls!
it's up to you to decide on whether to continuing padding, or not. but one fine day when you get a stable bf, make sure that he can accept the fact that 'deep down' you're only an A and not a C.
2007-04-27 03:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it roll off. Teenage girls are cruel to each other. If it isn't bra size, it's something else. Learn the difference between "kinda friends" and true friends. Your true friends know all about you and love you any way.
2007-04-27 01:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take responsibility of your wrong actions. and speak the truth, maybe you will be humilliated, but who hasn't? at least you wont be afraid of nothing and believe me when you speak the truth and you recognise your mistakes you are the STAR and if they make fun of you concider it as a consequence, but your face will light again soon. when i say speak the truth i mean speak it to your self and then to others if you think that is necessary, you can show the truth by removing the stuffing. do what you think is the best , choose.
2007-04-27 01:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by histvel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep stuffing girl! Make sure no1 sees though, its none of her damn business what you do with your bra & you can tell her I said so lol I am 20 and have a DDcup but you should not feel bad about it, you can always get implants at 16. My step daughter is only 8 and does the same thing <3 Melanie myspace.com/thatspoiledbella
2007-04-27 01:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Brunette Barbie 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
When you stuff your bra,it's very obvious.Just wear the padded bra,and ignore your friends rude comments.It's not really any of her business what you do with your body.
2007-04-27 01:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by Candi Apples 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to try what my sister did when people found out she was doing it. she very very gradually lowered the amount of stuffing until she wasn't using any at all. no one noticed because the difference was so small from day to day.
also, summer's coming up, so if you're going to be swimming, people are going to notice, so i think it's best to stop. i think if you lower that amount gradually, it won't be noticable.
2007-04-27 03:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you would go from a C to an A, people probably know you stuff it already anyway.
2007-04-27 01:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by Zach Z 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋