Is it true?

Question

1.They say, the one who come across as a strong person are the ones who are weak inside, and the one who appears weak are the ones who are strong by heart??

2. People who says they love u and care u are the people who hardly meant it or maybe called as( expressive) and the one who does not says all these but show it in action that they care for u. Do they really care or just pretend to care for u?
( If they really care then y dont they say it)

Answer 1

1. Always true. But sometimes those who don't look as a strong person might turn out to be a psycho or just dumb.

2.Often true. But It doesn't mean our parents don't meant it when they say those things.

Answer 2

I`m 41yrs old and in my experience I have to agree with your quote. You can`t generalise but in the majority of cases it`s spot on.
The gushing, showy person will do this to many people and it means far less to them, its how they are. It`s more of a look at me and how caring I am. While the quieter person is deeper but dosn`t always say anything.
The test will come when you go through something extreme and you need someone there for you.
I have found out many times who my true friends are. They are always the non gushy type but they`ll be a rock when you need them.
Also on the people who appear weak seem to have an inner strength, they have no need to show the world how strong they are because they are.
Whilst the one who appears stronger needs to keep proving this to everyone and appears to be stronger on the outside, they have to cover up their insecurities.
A deeper person cannot pretend to like someone whilst a shallow person can.
An insecure person would never tell you they don`t care, they act like your best friend, but it`s them that are afraid of having no friends.
Sometimes when a person is jealous of you they act like your best friend so it looks as though their not jealous! Hard to understand sometimes
The old saying"Those who say the most do the least"!

Answer 3

These are great questions, but there is no answer.

There are people who appear strong (or weak) and really are--they live their lives consistently and live up to expectations. Then there are "weak" seeming people who demonstrate extraordinary strength in the most unexpected of moments, There's no way to know whether a person is strong or weak in a given circumstance until they are tested, though hints may be available to those who have known or observed the person over time.

the same is true for how people love (or don't). I, for one, am an expressive person, and demonstrate my love for my family, friends, and significant others. But I have no interest in showing affection for those I don't actually feel it for. I don't believe in being fake like that--but I've met and worked with plenty of people who are loving and affectionate to your face and then later stab you in the back. I have also dated people who are very stand-offish (which is the opposite of me!) but are capable of loving so deeply and profoundly that to blow them off because they aren't expressive enough is to lose out a great deal.

It just depends on the person, but the key question is not so much whether you are strong or weak, or expressive or not, but rather whether you are an emotionally honest person.

Answer 4

When people put on a show with some excessive external expression, they are really compensating on the outside for a weakness on the inside. They are trying to convince you and themselves what they feel is the truth, but they secretly know is not true.

So watch out for motivations and intent. Pure and sincere actions speak louder than words.

Answer 5

1. Probably.

2. What about the people who say it and mean it? The people who show it in words and actions? Why does it have to be one or the other?

Answer 6

I don't think either are true.
1 > People who come across as strong often are, and people who come across as weak usually are!

2 > Sometimes we have to rely on our actions to show we care as it may be inappropriate to say 'I love you'. It could be misunderstood or may embarrass the other person.
Most men find it difficult to say to anyone other than their wives or children.
In my experience, if someone say's it they usually mean it!

Answer 7

I don't think either is necessaily true. It is true though that people will try to appear better than they are, still, you have to see whether they back their words up with thier actions.

Also, in the case of #2, a lot of people say you should not let a day go by without telling the people you love that you love them. There are a lot of people who wish that their undemonstrative husbands/wives/mothers/fathers would say "I love you" once in a while.

Answer 8

This is a curious question. I have seen many people in many occupations, many people in many relationships and many people in many situations. After many years of watching, I have concluded that it's always the ones who think about a problem, before rushing to solve it, or admire a potential partner before making an approach, or consider a situation before developing a resolution who create the best answer or the best partner or the best solution. People who rush in first usually have nothing more than the loudest voice to offer.

Answer 9

It is a irrational conjunctions .If it suits oneself , take a pick . No relationship quantum is finite and decided . There are as many permutation as the number of humans on this earth .

Generalizing the issue to answer ,when you talking about physical strength etc .in (1) it is not their strength , but our our weakness and fear which gives impetus to their strength . So it is our fear and lacking and not that person's.

In case of (2) it is my choice and permutation that I would settle for a quiet natured but expressive person . Silence is sometimes a handicap. Each one to his or her

Answer 10

If your loved one says he/she cares of you. He/she means it. LOVE is not a thing that you just take as a joke. It is real connection between two hearts. So both should realize the situation and get together.