I really like "Margaret," but don't know her well. Margaret greeted me yesterday by grabbing my ***. I'm not sure if she's straight or lesbian or what (too afraid to ask and find out she's straight). I thought she was going to stay and talk to me, but after a few seconds she saw another friend and ran over to her, leaving me with a giant question mark. ? Like this one. ?
She's given other flirtatious signals, but signals are generally mixed. What do you think?
2007-04-26 19:15:11 · 14 answers · asked by nicole 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can do one of two things,
One you can ask her what she means by grabbing your *** or
Two you can assume she is bi or les, but remember assuming anything makes an a55 out of u & me
A55ume, Assume, a55 u me
Get it?
It could be she is just grabbing a quick feel and is not really interested in moving on it.
Then again she might just like your ***.
So ask her and find out.
Who knows, you might like it!
2007-04-26 20:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate the way girls can be so flirty when they're not flirting at all. I've known girls to grab asses even when they aren't want a piece of it. It pisses me off. But I tell myself, she may not know that I'm gay, and things we're being cute little buddies. On the other hand, she may be hoping that you are gay, and wants to be a "buddy." Either way, the only way to be sure is to ask. Maybe the next time she smacks you bottom, make a joke about her wanting you, or playfully "seduce" her back. You may be able to gauge her reaction. If that doesn't work, a flat out, "are you gay?" is an old solid.
2007-04-27 05:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you don't know her. Is it too much to ask if you were to just watch her for a while? I mean, there are some really needy people out there that just use people for a time, and then leave. If you think that she might be 'fun', tell her. But only if you think that you will not get hurt by her when she takes off. I think that she is telling you what whe is like. Both in the grabbing, and the sudden desertion.
2007-04-27 02:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she in theatre? I'm a theatre chick and I have a gay boygfriend, a straight semi-girlriend, and I've seen a married actress and an actor confess they had crushes on eachother, flirt, move on, and never act on it at all! Some people (*especially* in theatre) are this way - but odds are, she's either lesbian, bi, or uncertain... except about you. But it sounds like she definitely likes you
2007-04-27 02:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be attracted to you, or maybe this is just the way she shows some love. Ask her! I don't think so, some girls do like to mess around with other girls and they are not gay, just experimenting. God made a companion of the opposite sex for everyone, or may I say not everyone...
2007-04-27 02:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by HOPE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time she gives you a mixed signal, just tell her "don't start something you aren't willing to finish" and wink at her.
That should give her lots to think about. It will either stop the behaviour or she will know that you are interested.
2007-04-27 03:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by beaton_tlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I have a friend who is straight and attached going around grabbing peoples breasts and butt... but these people are friends of coz. No biggy
2007-04-27 02:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by sillyputty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, now that I think about it, I would hate to be a lesbian, because she's probably straight!
2007-04-27 04:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by VenusianaisuneV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better if you keep safe distance from Margaret.
2007-04-27 02:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
grab hers and find out. she won't beable to cry sexual harrasment since she did first.
2007-04-27 10:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋