my teacher hate me!?

Question

ok my teacher hate me! DESPISES me! i have tried so fricken hard to get her to like me what do i do HELP!!!1

Answer 1

u r imprefect in human eyes,but u r prefect in God eyes..think abt it why ur teacher hate u??? if he/she hate u for no reason,just ignore he/her..perhaps ur teacher look down on u..
pull up ur socks!work hard!dun let people look down on u

Answer 2

Do your work. If your teacher also tries to give you a lower grade than what you have achieved, then something's wrong. If I had the chance to talk with your teacher, I'd say this, "You know what you are? Childish. Come on, you're an adult for **** sakes. Give this person a chance. Who cares what they look like? They're here to learn, and your job is to teach them, not hate them. Smarten up! You come here, teach, get along with your pupils, and that's the jist of it. If you don't like these students, then find somewhere else to work. How disrespectful of you." And if this hating continues, try to speak with the principal or counsellor about this teacher. She shouldn't be this way, she's supposed to do her job, not sit around and hate you just because of what you look like or something. A person is a person, unless they actually want to disrupt the learning cycle. I don't think you want to do that. By the way, are you a different ethnicity than her? If you are, then she may be a racist or she may be prejudice. In that case, that is bad, very bad.

Answer 3

Have you disrupted her class in any way? Is there some way that you have offended her (but you didn't know she was offended by it)? Do you cause any kind of problem for her--as in, you turn in your homework late or not at all, you talk during class or pass notes, you cheat on tests, you come in late frequently or skip class--ANYTHING like that?

If you don't do ANYTHING to warrant her dislike/hatred of you (you are a good student, pay attention in class, don't talk over her to your pals, show up on time, etc.), then you need to schedule a "conference" with her. Tell her that you have the impression that she does not like you. Tell her why you feel that way (does she frequently ignore you or give you a nasty, glaring look?) and ask if you did something that offended her. Listen to your teacher (do not interrupt her). If you did something to really make her angry (like used her as the butt of one of your jokes or poked fun at her in some way, or damaged something of hers unknowingly), apologize profusely, even if you feel you didn't do anything wrong.

If the teacher refuses to talk with you (or listen to your apology, should you get a conference) or cannot come up with a GOOD reason to dislike you (as in, you two are from two different cultural backgrounds, be it race or religion, and she is acting out on her "racist" feelings/beliefs towards you), then you should definitely talk to your counselor and your parents. It is the counselor's job to help you with any difficulties you may be having in school, and your parents would want to make sure you succeed in school, so they would want to know if there is a problem that needs to be addressed.

Whatever you do, don't talk about the "conference" with your friends. This is something that should be kept private between your teacher and you, unless you end up involving the counselor and/or your parents (even then, don't talk to your friends about it, no matter how tempting it is to do so; it will not help your problem one bit if the teacher knows you are talking about her behind her back).

Good luck.

Answer 4

Have you discussed this with your parents? Maybe you need to move to another classroom. Once they zero on you, you are in deep trouble. I am having the same problem with my grandson's teacher, so I am taking the matter higher, the principle is also against my grandson. So move to another classroom. Get your parents involve and back you up, if you are not the cause of the problem. Good luck.

Answer 5

...so tell me ..what have u done to make her hate you?...played up in class maybe...usually there is a reason...my suggestion....pull your socks up and start listening in class and actually learn something...you may find that if you behave the way your supposed to she will eventually come around....

Answer 6

Be yourself...and stop trying so hard. Sometimes when you try to be someone you are not, you can come across as fake. Smile, and be pleasant.

Answer 7

i had a teachure like that in grade 4 she jest what to see you work harder if you bring up your grades and stop playing in the class room and leson to her she will like you better. good luck.

Answer 8

try setting up a meting to talk to fer and if that does not work go and talk to your counselors and ask to change your class hope this helps

Answer 9

ignore her and focus on homework? possibly? i mean, she probably hates you because you're the type to be distractive towards teh classroom environment etc.etc.

Answer 10

deal with t and if he really does stay quiet in class and do your work.