Why is it that a woman in a stale, crappy marriage cannot get something on the side with a guy that she is actually attracted to? All the guys out there that are available and open to this situation are nasty and gross.
2007-04-26 15:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by Marissa J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband is a jerk that won't spend any time with me. He spends most of his time either on the computer, playing video games, or talking to girls barely out of their teens. I am waiting for the right time to leave but since I am a year away from getting my degree I cannot jeopardize that now just to have my freedom. I need something just to help me get by until the right time comes to leave.
2007-04-26 15:59:24 · update #1
whether its a married man or married woman- cheating is 100% WRONG!
2007-04-26 15:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Probably something biological you never hear a guy saying that they have a thing for married women or a women saying that a wedding band gets them more attention. Elf dont pass the book on to the "bad" gender, you know well that cheating is a 50/50 thing.
2016-04-01 09:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is a union between two people. That union is not to be entered into lightly. When you commit your life and love to someone then you have to stand by that vow. Married people become unhappy at times in their relationships. That is what working on a marriage is all about. When one of those partners have an affair then all they they have worked on to that point is lost and it is like starting all over with issues like trust. Trust is something earned not given. And that is only when the affair doesn't break their marriage apart. If she really needs to be with another man sexually, then she owes it to her husband to give him a divorce ahead of time. He deserves that much respect. And visa versa.
2007-04-26 15:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by lily_florance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because the concept of the dynamic is nasty and gross. Instead of p!$$!ng all over your marriage, try to make it better. Communicate with your husband. Go on an adventure together. Spice things up in the bedroom. Cheating is just selfish and cruel. Get your priorities straight and grow up.
2007-04-26 15:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound like you are in a real dysfunctional relationship. You cant stand your own husband, you cannot understand why single guys dont want to get mixed up in a situation like yours, and it sounds like you are using your husband.
While your husband may be a jerk, you sound like you are doing your fair share to make your relationship sound like a complete and utter disaster.
You are a year away from your degree, and then you are going to dump your husband. If that is your plan to leach off him until you reach your goal, then at the very least have enough f'ing respect for him to stay faithful for another year.
truly pathetic, if you ask me.
2007-04-28 03:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well go get sum...If I was in yer sit. I'd be out there trying to get a lil to make myself feel good...life is too short to be unhappy and there r a lot of good guys out there...and if you just need a lil luvin'...I'm sure u can find someone to help you out...lol...g"luck
2007-04-26 16:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by lil dick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women in stale, crappy marriages should get divorced and then she can do whatever she wants.
2007-04-26 15:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your wrong on this
but much depends on your looks
trust me there are plenty of guys willing and able
and there are website to hook up
but it's your age and looks that will determine what type of guy you get
the cream of the crop can cherry pick who they fool around with
and they generally like them young and hot
as you old and enter "cougar" status, there are very young guys ( think just turned 18 ) that chase cougars, but for the most part like a cougar you gonna have to pull out all the stops to fight for the best guy you can afford ( so to speak ) and you will find your choices will be slim, so you have to adjust you thinking for choices laterally ( think ethnic )
2007-04-26 15:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because the guy has more sense than she does.
2007-04-26 15:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
e mail me and lets talk about it. Might be able to help.
2007-04-26 15:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋