2007-04-26 14:05:25 · 14 answers · asked by NHBaritone 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My wedding vows wouldn't mention God, would not promote gender roles or mention silly promises I could not keep.
I would not refer to my partner in my wedding vows as if he were my personal physical possession (ie *to have and to hold*)...
2007-04-26 23:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Gay Man 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The first clue would probably be the rhinestone studded altar at the front of the church - if we settled on a traditional wedding.
The sequined dresses - fuchsia, if you must know - would be another item that might tip off the spectators that the wedding is gay.
I believe that the piece that would make it unflappably gay would have to be the hotter-than-hell altar "boys" in leather thongs, the kind with the zipper on the front. They would break into "Corner of the Sky" from "Pippin" when the grooms tongued each other.
Is that enough?
Oh yes, there'll be catered sushi at the reception.
2007-04-26 22:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by HerMajesty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would purposely not invite my brother and his wife, or my sisters for not inviting me to their weddings. Personally I would just avoid a big event like a wedding. No use making a big production of it... if a relationship is working, then that is good enough! I would rather take the money and spend it on a house/property.
2007-04-26 21:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, mine differed in many ways:
*It was sort of a New Year's Eve party in which a wedding broke out. We timed the vows for just before midnight.
*My brother DJ'd. He played "Something Good" by Utah Saints before the vows ("Oooh, I know that something good is gonna happen!"), and then my wife's best friend blew an airhorn.
*We vowed to give each other our whole lives, not to "obey" or anything stupid like that. We said sweet things to each other about why we were marrying, too. She said, "You opened up rooms in my mind." I said, "I am now more afraid of a day without you in it than I am of commitment."
*My vows were in Russian, a surprise for her because she is Russian.
*I wore lavender; she wore gray.
*We had vegetarian hoppin' john for New Year's luck as well as cake and finger foods.
*Our closest male friends escorted us to the altar. (We wanted some male energy. We hired a Pagan priest as well.)
2007-04-27 10:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend I have discussed this should the laws change here. But we'd get married at the beach (ok that's not totally different) but we'd be wearing plain black boardshorts with the same hawaiin shirt pattern but in red and blue. with black ties. Everyone else would have to wear beach wear as well. There'd be no walking down the aisle. Though my girlfriend did mention that she would like to be wearing a suit and me a dress but I told her no way in hell am I wearing a dress thank you very much lol.
2007-04-27 00:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by matchbook1984 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd prefer it to be not as formal.. I'm not into tuxes and dress clothes, I don't think those things are attractive on guys. A more casual attire would be better for me.
And none of that "Here comes the bride" song.
I wouldn't have a best man and groomsmen as I don't have many male friends. I'd have a maid of honor and groomsmaids. Hahaha.
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2007-04-26 21:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No church.
I would just go and elope. That's all I need.
Mind you I never understood the white wedding thing. I'd rather save money and buy a house.
2007-04-27 10:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Luis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have a quote on quote "gay wedding". I would have a traditional wedding that happen to feature 2 gay males. Sure I'll gladly wear a white suit... and just for kicks I'll throw condoms instead of flowers.
2007-04-26 21:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by Advocate 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
same sex marriage is exacly the same it just would be adam and steve giving vows or lilith and eve giving vows lol no diffrent other than dress and cost women wedding being the more expensive one.
2007-04-26 21:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by KarmicFacilitator2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine would be clothing optional, beacuse hey...let's all feel comfortable about our bodies. That and it's just a dreamy way to get married.
2007-04-27 08:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by essexsrose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋