Just last week we got a new manager at work. I find myself talking about her quite a bit (more than anyone else), and at work (when she's around) I'm always smiley and giddy (I don't quite feel in controle of myself). When she noticed she asked why I was always laughing (not laughing, huge smile) at her I had no idea what to say, I just avoided it (at that moment I realized what I was doing. That's how I act around guys I have crushes on, only to a lesser degree).Then I aways try to work/get close to her.
2007-04-26 13:45:14 · 10 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
At a guess:
You admire her. You feel an attraction/connection with her. It doesn't mean it is sexual, either.
I have friends I have felt that way about.
The giddy, out of control feeling could be part of your instinctive reaction to her. It could also be a little bit that you want to live up to her or not be a disappointment to her.
2007-04-26 16:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by KnowItAll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen this happen often with employees who are trying to make a good impression on the 'new boss'. If she is older than you, you may find that she has qualities that you admire and you look up to her. It does not necessarily mean anything sexual. You can like her as a person and want to be around her without being sexually attracted to her.
2007-04-26 14:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by gchris 5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're saying this has got here about to you on different jobs. have you ever considered the probability that the problem might want to lie with you? I heard slightly suggestion a lengthy time period in the past. It makes perfect experience to me. "If one man or woman insults you -- say he calls you an *** -- ignore about him. If yet another human being calls you an ***, ignore about her, too. similar is going for the subsequent man or woman who calls you an ***. yet when everyone you meet calls you an ***, initiate braying; that is quite particular you're an ***!"
2016-12-04 22:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not obsessed..definitely a girl crush//nothing wrong with it but if this is your boss she is off limits that way and u may not know if shes gay or bi and u may need to process that this has happened!!! good luck..just try to keep composure at work
2007-04-26 14:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by LOONEY LADY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is someone you admire and would like to learn from and be more like her, like a mentor. That can be a good thing. You could learn a lot from her that will help you in your career.
2007-04-26 14:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-04-26 13:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by didomidoxa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have girl love.
2007-04-26 13:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a crush!
2007-04-26 13:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sara B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I watch if you get it on?
2007-04-26 14:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Timotheus is my Roman name (?) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could you be bi!
2007-04-26 13:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Ivan S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋