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I have no love left, no happiness, no friends, no family, no future, no past, no memories, just nothing. What else is there? Nothing? What do I do now? With nothing?

2007-04-26 13:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by sarah n 1 in Social Science Psychology

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you'll find everything you're looking for at a bar. Trust me.

2007-04-26 13:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

A strange question, how can you have no love left? Love can be spent all your life and you never run out.

Happiness. now there's a thing, we spend much of our life in the pursuit of happiness, promising ourselves that if we do this, or own that we will be happy. When you get older you realize that happiness has to be in the now, in the moment. It isn't the big things that make us happy, but the sum of the small, a good book, a great song, a shared joke.

No friends, or family, that's a common thought, but actually most of us have family of some sort, it's a choice of whether we are close to them or not. Friends, well you may be between friends at the moment, but there are 100's of potential friends out there.

No future? Of course there is, you just need to decide what you want to do with it.

No past or memories, unless you have had some sort of accident, then of course you have both, and like most of us that will be a mix of good and bad things, concentrate on the good, and learn from the bad, then forget them and move on.

So what is there, a whole future in front of you for you to decide how it's going to go. Sure life sucks at times, but if you didn't have the cr*p times, how would you know when life is good.

Decide what you want and go for it.

2007-04-26 20:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cowgirl 4 · 0 0

Start over, make new friends, more memories and begin a new life. You do still have some things left in you I'm sure, like the will to keep going no matter what. You still have happiness and love tucked away in your heart for now but those emotions are still there. Many people wish they could start their lives over again. I have done it 3 times from absolutely nothing and now my life is better than ever. This time I started over with a wonderful woman who is my best friend and partner. You can do it too. Each new day is a gift from God so make this day the beginning of your new life. I wish you well.

2007-04-26 21:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1 0

There is a help line you can call and talk to the person on the line for free. I used to be like that. My doctor put me on depression drugs. And well they do start to make things better. Music Heals the soul. Religion gives you hope. Going out and meeting new ppl give you contacts and aquaintances and a possibility of new friends. Mabe get a cat or dog to keep you company they also help your emotions and keep you busy. Try going to a spa and or getting a makeover. Mabe clean up your house untill you feel satisfied with it. Try going for alot of walks during the day. Get outside, it is not healthy to be indoors at all times. The sunlight can also bring you happiness. Just makesure you stay busy there are all sorts of options out there, and believe it or not if you reach out to someone they will respond wether it be a good or bad thing. No matter what think positive. Be happy and leave each day as though you werent going to be alive for the next. Just fullfill your dreams. If you have nothing left turn it into something. Nothing is just a word begging to be fullfilled into a something to make you happy. Taking up cooking is fun, or fashion design. Mabe go back to school or get a better job. I hope I have helped I would like to type more but my back hurts.

2007-04-26 20:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Vanella 2 · 0 0

You have the wonderful opportunity for a fresh start; to build your life up again with no past baggage or issues. How many people are given such a chance?

You find love within yourself. When you acknowledge that love, you will find happiness. When you radiate happiness, you will attract happy friends. Friends are the family we choose for ourselves, so you will be able to build a family of your own choosing. You may add elements to your life that you choose one at a time. No one is forcing these choices. They are all yours. Your future is completely in your hands. You will build the memories that you will take with you for all eternity.

If you feel that you need some guidance, just close your eyes and ask for it.

2007-04-26 20:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0 0

You have not run out of everything. There is always one thing left: choice.

You have the choice to let your depression control you, or you can control it and seek help.

You have a choice to commit suicide, or you can realize that life is what you make of it. If you think the world is an ugly horrible place then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, and you destroy yourself in order match the world you perceive.

You have the choice to make your life better. Will that make your life better, there is no guarantee, but trying, no striving for something, be it wealth, family, career, love, is better than passively sitting in the middle of a road, waiting for the next car to hit you.

So choose a path, left or right, up or down. Stand up and get off the road. Strive to make a life you can live in. If that's the only thing you do then at least you DID something!

2007-04-26 20:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by fleetwind141 4 · 0 0

You can never ever run out of everything as long as you have a working brain, and you know how to use it. Life is like a genie in a bottle. Your wish is his command. You are the creator of your life. If you only think about bad things, if you always complain, you'll attract bad things into your life. No matter how big the situation you are in, never forget you are the responsible of all good and bad things in your life.

God bless you

2007-04-27 01:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The logical answer is that after this happens is you are supposed to die.

But what you should do is go out and do some activities. Go clubbing, learn to play an instrument, do charity work. there are lots of things that you can do to bring a purpose to your life.

2007-04-26 20:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by Micicle 2 · 1 0

You Always have someone who cares, us... Make new memmories materials only bring greed besides we will all be sad if you died =(

2007-04-26 20:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Aroran 2 · 1 0

u become me, i'm so lonely, i'm so lonely somebody help me, Akon- Lonely i listen to that song all day now

2007-04-26 20:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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