I've been friends with a girl for 14 years. Unfortunately she has let me down more times then I can count on my fingers. I have told her how she lets me down, which she does take in for a couple of weeks, but it's always the same with her!
2007-04-26 13:26:04 · 15 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends are a reflection of who "you" are. When you become reliable to yourself, you'll ditch your old friends for some new & improved friends!!!
2007-04-26 13:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by baby boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is, Why do you continue to stay friends with her if she has always let you down? It sounds like you are a sucker for punishment. Sometimes the good goes out of a friendship that has run it's course. Not every friend is a lifetime friend, many friends one makes in life, are like guideposts on the journey of life,and when they've served their purpose, you move on and remember what you've learned,and keep the memories of the good. But in your case forgetting , may be better,and her constant disrespect for you, is fates way of nudging you to make a change in your life.
2007-04-26 13:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by mainah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.Wow...As I get older I have come to the conclusion that I really only have a few friends and a lot of acquaintances. You can only put up with so much for so long. I believe she continues this behavior because you enable her. Sometimes you have to take a step back and revaluate your friendships.
2007-04-26 13:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by glitterbutt76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you find the right answer let me know cause I HAD a friend that i done everything for i babysat for her and never got paid and i paid bills for her and never got the money back i loved her kids like they were my own and i got treated like sh**..... just let go of her I understand that it hurts but trust me it does get better with time...
2007-04-26 13:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by shygirlelm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is reliably and predictably flaky. That means that you can count on her. If you have been friends with her for fourteen years, she cannot be all bad. I would just learn to accept her shortcomings and make friends with other people that are more trustworthy.
2007-04-26 13:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes friends let us down because they have their own life to worry about.
2007-04-26 13:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that! Ok, same thing, i totally wanted revenge on her, she rouined my life and made everyone hate me! If i were you, I would totally forget her, shes NOT a friend AT ALL! trust me, I know people like her, they just arent worth your time!
2007-04-26 13:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Pete Wentz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple ,i holded on to judgemental friend ,a woman ,i helped out,been polite,but she was nothing of what she was when i first knew her,guess masks fall with time,and in the end i just dont want to hear from her anymore,and letted her go ,do it yourself and dont look back
2007-04-26 13:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by reifguy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a friend, this is an acquaintence.
Friends do let you down.
2007-04-26 13:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong friends---but if your young, kids can't be bothered with anothers feelings. Find new friends--youth group
2007-04-26 13:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋