This question is for men. There's this guy im sorta-seeing and everytime we have sex he wants me to be on top. I tried to get him to change position, but he never ants to. Also he doesnt like to give foreplay. Is there a secret message to this, or is it a clue with his personality? Please help!
2007-04-26 13:13:15 · 10 answers · asked by stephanie J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Eh, he's just lazy. Sounds a lot like someone I know *whistles and looks around*... Hahah.. yeah, me. I'm a lazy top, I like to be on bottom and let the other person do the work most of the time. I'm also not a fan of the oral foreplay. Giving it anyway. It makes my jaws sore. Hahaha.. TMI.
Don't you just love my candor?
edit: Aww, now everyone's making me feel bad. I'm not a user, not a bad person, just a little slothful. =) I can be pretty wild too though.
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2007-04-26 13:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds to me as if he's VERY lazy! I mean, come on, he doesn't perform ANY foreplay, YOU on top always, and your "kind of sort of" seeing him. Hhmm... Sounds as if he's just getting a regular sex toy when he wants to. And you're allowing him to do so. Drop him already and give yourself time to recover from him. Then go out and find someone better than this piece of, well, you get the idea.
2007-04-26 13:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is there no Heterosexual Relationships category in YAs?
They need to make one.
As to the question asked:
He sounds like a typical self-centered heterosexual male out to get his rocks off and not worried about his partner. YES it says something about his personality. Quit "sorta" seeing him and find a guy who appreciates you.
Or.... you could always come over to the dark side. Muwahahaha. Girls LOVE changing positions!
2007-04-26 13:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know some guys are like that, a friend of mine's boyfriend is like that he almost always wants to have sex the same way. I'm not sure how to get him to change, but I thought you would like to know someone else is going through it too.
2007-04-26 13:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by dinosf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' understand the question. Are you a woman writing in the Gay section, or a man writing in the gay section. On top? As in A top, or as sitting on it? The only secret here is what are you talking about.
2007-04-26 13:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you can get him on top just move around a little bit
put you back to him (reverse butterfly)
on top lay down chest to chest make him pump
lean with it rock with it
try sideways
or just demand new way all guys like doggy
2007-04-27 18:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by sir_bastard_thethird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to see my partner looking down at me while on top of me during sex it turns me on more.It is not an every time thing but is very sexy.
2007-04-26 15:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by xtreem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are different, some like it one way ,others another .personally I like a marathon with different events.
2007-04-26 13:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by treeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's lazy and tired. don't get on top, and make him rape u.
2007-04-27 18:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one huh and two what and three huh?????????????????????????????????????
2007-04-30 13:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by chiachoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋