sex with your spouse.?

Question

me and my husband has been married for 12 years and the sex is good when i get it,but the problem is that i don't get it to often, maybe twice a week. if that. I know he is not cheating because he works all the time and i know where he is all the time and we do have a close relationship.

Answer 1

Change of scenery or routine might pick things up a bit.

Answer 2

Girl, the key words are WORK ALL THE TIME, I know, my husband does shift work at the mill. Before he got this job, he used to be after me every night. When he first got hired he was holding in there pretty good with the love making, but here lately, maybe once or twice or week. He told me,"baby, I'm just too tired." He is working 7 days a week, no off day, and doing 10 to 14 hrs a day shift. He told me this is just a little sacrifice we have to make for our family. We have four kids and live in a nice home with a pool and have nice vehicles. Sometimes, it 's not all about the sex. When he's off he makes it up to me. After he eats dinner, and takes his bath, he falls dead asleep. Sometimes after the kids are asleep I snuggle up next to him or either he holds me in his arms and we both fall asleep together. Find other ways to be together so you want think about how sex deprived you are.

Answer 3

I'm not getting married for another 10 months and I haven't had sex in over a week!!!! I'd be BEYOND happy if I was getting it twice a week!!! haha

If it's not enough for you, then talk to him about it.

After 12 years, still having sex twice a week is very good!! However, just because that's 'average' doesn't mean that has to be you!!!

Talk to him, or just take matters into your own hands and buy some new slutty night-clothes. Seduce him girl!!!

Answer 4

I am in your situation too, but the roles are reversed. I don't give it up to my hubby very often. Why?, you ask ,,, Well, most importantly, sometimes I despise him.! He has no manners, he is vulgar with my friends, acts like a child, and farts in public. I am disgusted by his behavior and hold out as punshment I guess. Another reason, is I am exhausted when he wants to get frisky (1am) he even wakes me up for it???

My point to you, is maybe he is just tired and try to talk it over with him and express your feelings. If he is cheating, he is going to find a way, no matter the circumstances.

Answer 5

After 12 years you're still getting it twice a week???? You should be happy. Most people married as long as you have are doing it once a month! if you want more entice him. Walk around nude, wear something real sexy, put in a hott movie! See if it turns him on.

Answer 6

Maybe that is enough for him. It looks like it may not be enough for you. Have you ever thought of just doing something intimate where the both of you won't have to work so hard because he works a lot. Sometimes cuddling and being close is just as important as actual lovemaking itself. Whenever you aren't getting enough lovin, let him know, she should make an extra effort to please his waiting wife!

Answer 7

After 12 years of marriage twice a week isn't often enough for you? Sounds like you need a reality check. Count your blessings and enjoy what you have, this is about as good as it gets for most married couples.

Answer 8

After 12 years girl your lucky to get it twice a week.

Answer 9

Maybe you should try creative initiation. Use your imagination or look up some helpful hints..and above all you could always pray for a return of intimacy. Best of wishes.

Answer 10

I would just ask him for more. Show him what you want and express your needs. Let him know. Change it up a little. Get Sexy With Him. Bring it out of him.