Is that bad?
2007-04-26 11:16:10 · 10 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is she your wife or your mother?
Are you a full grown adult male?
Does she run your life, or are you allowed to make personal choices for yourself?
Viewing pornography isn't for everyone, but it's certainly not cheating, or bad.
If she doesn't care to join you, then let her know you'll be watching it alone.
I think that some women do feel that you should only need to look at them if you love them, so perhaps she just needs your reassurance that viewing porn does not diminish the love you have for her.
It really comes down to communication...
when in doubt, talk it out!
Best wishes...
2007-04-26 11:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Watching porno is not really that bad, unless you were thinking that the woman in the movie was doing it to you. Yes your wife will be upset or offended by it, but you must explain or at least tell her what it is that you found so amazing watching porno, remember that those people infront of the camera is getting paid doing it even if some women are faking it.....just be honest with your wife about it,....who knows you can also tell her that it help you to get some idea of pleasing her,..good luck!!
2007-04-26 11:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her watch it with you. You shouldn't have hide it from her in the first place. Make a night of it. If she hasn't seen one before show her it is not all that bad. She may like it. Hell you never know she may bring out a few of hers.:)
2007-04-26 11:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by faeryrose143 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe. you should go talk to her ask her how it makes her feel. who knows maybe she's into it... then again maybe she isnt. just be honest and dont tell her that lame excuse that most guys say" i'm a guy honey its in my genes" she will not appreciate that at all. and dont do it for a couple of weeks or a month at leasnot in the house! good luck buddy.
2007-04-26 11:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by gilma m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
just own up to it and say yeah.. what about it
admit you like it
NEVER take the feeble position
NEVER apologize
once you do she'll have you and use that as leverage over your head in the next fight and will constatly remind you
women use incidents like this as power play, they oftne leverage it out for material goods and will hold back sex as a threat
2007-04-26 11:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to watch it with you !! No, it's not bad.
2007-04-29 20:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tweety 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
invite her to watch it with you if you feel you have to hide it from her then what you are doing is wrong.
2007-04-26 18:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by windwalker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to join you!
2007-04-26 11:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by #1 wifey 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY MARRIED MEN THINK THEY HAVE THE NEED TO WATCH PORN IF ICAUGHT MY HUSBAND TO SAY THE LESS I WOULD BE CRSHED TO ME THATS THE SAME AS CHEATING SORRY GUY BUT YOU BETTER SAY A BIG IM SO SORRY AND DONT DO IT AGAIN
2007-04-26 11:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋
must be if you're asking this question.
2007-04-26 11:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋