2007-04-26 10:23:02 · 22 answers · asked by waggy 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you think it's wrong, it's wrong; if you think it's right, it's right...
...within reason of course! For example, people may think it's right to put ice cubes in their younger siblings' beds, but it is in fact wrong as I found out from the lecture my mum gave me when I was about ten or twelve years old...
If you're feeling guilty, it may mean that you're either paying too much attention to details that no one else notices, you're too kind to others, or you're worried that someone else will think it's wrong. Don't worry about what others think; you have to decide for yourself. That's how Russians do it (or how people stereotype Russians anyhow): we don't think, we just do it. Be Russian! Ha ha...just teasing. But really, don't worry so much about it...whatever "it" is. What is done, is done.
2007-04-28 07:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only need to feel guilty if you have harmed someone. Most religious organisations try to make people feel guilty by telling them they have harmed god or their relationship with some deity or their chances of going to some sort of heaven. Take no notice of them it is a con trick to gain power or money
2007-04-26 18:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope!
it probably makes you slightly f*cked up, like everyone else, as Larkin said.
Decide what your moral code is, thoughtfully and selflessly, then feel guilty if you're breaking it. If in doubt, I suggest starting with these two observations:
- we all depend on each other
- we all depend on the world around us
Construct your code from that and you'll do OK, your time on the earth will have been a Good Thing for everyone, and you will probably have had some sex as well.
2007-04-26 17:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Feeling guilty just makes you human!
2007-04-26 17:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by tinymite 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. Guilt usually results from messages you've received from other people. But if you feel you have acted against your OWN ethical/moral standards (and you're sure they are yours and not one's you have been handed by parents or society or your religion or your school or whatever), then of course guilt DOES make it wrong.
2007-04-26 17:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ambi valent 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if ur guilty it must be wrong in ur eyes no one feels guilt unless what they did is wrong
2007-04-26 17:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by BOBO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it makes it normal. Guilt is part of the human condition.
2007-04-27 07:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by mittobridges@btinternet.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel guilty is because what your doing is not o.k you conscience tells you when something is good or bad!! it's your decision to change or not change! o.k blessings
2007-04-26 17:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Not Of This World 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. "It" is either wrong or its not, guilt is just your reaction to "it" which may accurate or off-base.
2007-04-26 18:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by geramd4040 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, why else would you feel guilty?
2007-04-26 18:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋