Im 18 years old. My sister Still they they can tell me what to do and boss me around as if their my parents. They try and change who I am. They try and tell me what to do and how to run my life, not in a friendly or adviceful way, but as if they own me and have as much power over me as my parents.
I've told them I am who I am and I wont change for anyone. How and what do I tell them to show them I am an adult and can make my own descisions and that they can't tell me how to run my life and what to do?
They made me sit down in meetings where I am all by myself and they all team up against me. My Parents are hardly home and are not very helpful so leave them out of the equation please. How do I deal with this?
thanks in advance.
2007-04-26 10:20:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
watch Cinderella,, she found a prince,
2007-04-26 10:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get a job if you are still in school get a part time job and make your own money and save enough to move out and be on your own this is the only way, or you can just tell them to mind their own business and stay out of yours.
2007-04-26 10:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out.
The only way to change things it to change the dynamics of the relationship. You need to see them less. If they can see that you have moved out on your own and are doing fine, they might leave you alone. At least you will become stronger emotionally.
2007-04-26 10:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by clutchdoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they tell you what to do just act like you're gonna do what they say and then go do what you want.
Or you could just tell them to mind their own business.
2007-04-26 10:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Still*Perfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. You are writing them off too quick.
2007-04-26 10:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋