im so angry and hung up about not bein able to get a girl or even make friends with em on the internet?

Question

you no make contacts, what should i do? i suffe very low self worth and get clingy, needy and latch onto them, i try not to, but my desperation always shows through..because im lonely and isolated, and i live alone, im 29.. and am waiting for therapy
because i have bpd
what can i do to get girls and befriend them in the meantime..
i feel hopeless, angry and frustrated.. i get terrible low moods about this, and feel lonely, and isolated, and angry at girls for not wantin me and rejectin me..

Answer 1

you are trying too hard. No one wants to be with someone who seems desperate. Chill out. Be yourself. The right girl will come along in due time. Love hits you when you least expect it.

Answer 2

Herein lies your trouble. Girls (or guys) don't want to get involved with someone who is clingy or desperate. You're probably a very good catch, and the right girl will see that. My advice would be to not try so hard, be yourself, the one for you will come along when you least expect and at the place you least expect. Kick back, enjoy the dance.

Answer 3

First get the help you need with your bipolar disorder. Once you get on the right meds you will even out and feel much better about yourself. If you get clingy and obsessive, no girl is going to talk to you or befriend you. Just relax, be yourself and see what happens. Anger certainly won't help the situation. Get help then try to meet someone. It will be much easier for you when you feel more balanced and better about yourself. My Mom and my brother are both bpd. And BTW, we all get rejected sometimes, that's just part of it, you can't let that get to you.

Answer 4

listen dog, the more girls that have rejected you the better you should be at getting girls. or do you not even get close enough to get rejected? but for real, i think any dude will tell you that they got game from being played. to acheive great things you must take great risk.

the only thing wrong with you is that you have fully convinced yourself there is something wrong with you.

chill. when you talk to a girl don't immediatly be thinking about whether or not she is gonna like you. worry about whether or not you like them. they will take care of them selves when your just friends so don't worry about thier feelings so much. make it fun for you.