im so inlove with this girl i will do anything to be with her.
but i dont feel exackly he same bout other girls.am i gay or is this just a phase that im going through.i dont have a problem being gay but my parents seem to have a problem with it.
2007-04-26 08:27:49 · 33 answers · asked by nia 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Why worry about whether you are gay or not. Just munch some rug and become scissor sisters.
2007-04-26 08:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
People tend not to be 100% either. Being Gay can be put on a continuum. Imagine a line. One end is 100% heterosexual. On the other end is 100% homosexual. The mid point is 50/50. Most people are somewhere between. I've been told by gay friends that the ones who are near the middle decide on a case by case basis by personality and attraction without much regard to the gender of the person.
If you are pretty young, time will tell you where you fit.
2007-04-26 08:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Karrose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might just have a "girl crush" which is different than being gay. Compare those feeling to feelings you have for cute boys. Are you attracted to her in a special certain way that you don't feel for boys? That would be an good indicator.
You seem young and I think possibly too young to know for sure, although some young people do. The fact that you are questioning it tells me that you probably are not gay.
A girl crush is when you have an intense admiration for a girl and want to be her or be just like her. You tend to want to be near her and dress like her and listen to her music. Could this be what you are experiencing?
Don't be quick to label yourself either way. Just follow your heart and instincts and see where they take you as you mature.
2007-04-26 08:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lesbian or bi-sexual. What's wrong with that? If your parents object, then that is their problem. If you don't feel the same about other girls, it's okay. Just because you are lesbian or bi-sexual doesn't mean you can't be selective either. There has to be some chemistry there.
But the other thing is, does the girl feel the same way? Don't get hurt over this.
2007-04-26 08:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you don't fancy other girls doesn't really matter. It is the fact that you are in love with the object of your affection, who happens to be female, that makes you gay. Whether or not it is a phase is something you will have to determine for yourself. The question you must ask is, am I also attracted to men (which would make you bisexual)?
2007-04-26 08:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm afraid i do not follow the reason on your rant. (question) ok so your a gay Christian and also you do not trust gay marriage. Whats the point of this rambling on. You open through pointing in direction of marriage yet finally end up speaking about you households lack of ability to face reality. (your sexuality) seem once you've not any interest in gay marriage then so be it, yet do not deny others the right to marry because its not what you want. modifying. The I dude. once you've examine the bible you may want to comprehend that its does not enable quite slightly something. you may want to comprehend that homosexuality managed a grand finished of six verses out of one million. you may want to also comprehend that if a Bride is discovered now to not be a virgin she is to be stoned to lack of existence. the forged e book is done of similar verses. a million of them in reality. So why are you selective in which one are ideal for you? You do keep in mind that God does not have a verse that enables us to go with our chosen verses.
2016-12-04 22:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first parents usually do have a problem with it, but once they figure that you're not going to change your mind they get over it. I'm not gay but I think I can help you. You're a girl right? Well, if it's just this one girl, maybe see if theres any other girls that you feel the same about or like, or anything? Otherwise if it's just this girl, I don't know.
2007-04-26 08:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by horscraz15 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes your hormones can just be a bit out of whack, and make you feel things that maybe aren't really you.
Do you feel sexually about boys as well? If you are, you might just be curious! Even if you are, I encourage you to explore your sexuality (safely!), and if it turns out that you're not gay, then you're not. If it turns out that you are, then you are. But you won't know until you explore those feelings. Being young and all of a sudden becoming a sexual being can be difficult and it can be confusing!
If it turns out that your parents dislike the fact that you could be gay, or punish you for that, you should mention to them that you're their daughter and they should love you for who you are! This said, I wouldn't say anything to them until you know for sure that you are gay, as it could cause unnecessary tension between you and your parents. Don't let them make you be someone who you're not!
Sometimes love is just love, and it doesn't necessarily involve sexual feelings as well. Maybe you can just start being friends with this girl and if you realize/decide that you really want to be with her as a girlfriend, you can then take steps to maybe make that happen if she feels the same way about you.
I did a lot of exploring with my sexuality when I was younger and came to the conclusion that I'm bisexual, but I ended up marrying a wonderful man who I am very happy with emotionally and sexually. Just leave your options open, because love is love and it doesn't matter what gender that person is who you love.
2007-04-26 08:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No one can tell from here if you are gay or not. Perhaps you just really love this other girl as a friend. It doesnt mean you two will be having sex, or does it? See, who can tell from here? Best thing would probably be to talk with her about your feelings.
2007-04-26 08:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sounds of Ed's football game 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well depends on your age...i get it you are young so it might be a phase but even if its not you should be proud and comfortable with yourself regardless of your sex orientation.
You will be happy with whoever you choose and as for the parents they will come around eventually.
Keep in mind that declaring to your parents that you are gay is not easy and if does cause any problems try to be understanding.
2007-04-26 08:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by good 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wellare you attracted to men? cause you coul dbe Bi and i dont think theres anything wrong with it.
I think if your comfortable with it, tell this girl how you feel and see what happpens.
It may just be a phase, i had a phase too :)
2007-04-26 08:31:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋