I'm married with a 12 month old and I just recently found out that i'm pregnant. I told my husband last night he was calmly happy. But over the last year our money situation has been not so good, and he's been pretty un helpful as a dad, with work and school. I have been feeling like telling the people around me that I'm pregnant. They are really negative about future pregnancies I might have because of relationship and money problems. I under stand but what's done is done. how can I put it across to those that are not going to want to hear it? Does waiting a couple of months make a diff?
Thanks.
2007-04-26 07:37:25 · 7 answers · asked by kikumatsu 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you're happy and your husband's happy that's all that matters. If there are money problems, work on a budget. Don't buy if you can't pay cash. I learned that the hard way. Be sure to let your husband know how much you need him to help you out now and then. He may just need to be asked. And if you want to tell anyone else do it. If they can't be happy for you, then to H*** with them.
2007-04-26 07:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by magix151 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never share the news with family, friends, or work before 12 weeks. The easy way to deal with it is...if they don't ask, don't tell...especially if you think they might be negative about it.
2007-04-26 14:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by Krista H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell them waiting only makes it worse thayll give thier advice and comints to it as well my mother tryed to have me give both mine away well thier 13 and 11 now i wouldnt traid them for nothing monie probles will always exzist they will come to turms thier own way just be happy for you and let the others fig their felling out on thier own congrats
2007-04-26 14:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by dragonmist1034 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,, i totally understand you...I;d still tell because its still a blessing reguardless of any circumstanceS including money issueS! ....HOWEVER , this MAY be a wise lesson to you to keep you personal issues especially financial ones in your home if possiblE! ...good luck and ocngrats!
2007-04-26 14:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by somebodysmamasoon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, gap between children is good to have, but thats okay if u u have another one coming, and dont think about people what they have to say in this
you cannot please all the people all of the times.
2007-04-26 14:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are happy then those around you should be happy too. when things come up, they always work themselves out.
2007-04-26 14:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by pennpromp12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to wait then thats fine its your buisness not everyone elses.
2007-04-26 14:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by swee_t_pie27000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋