how do i tell him?

Question

I just found out that i am having a baby im 15 how do i tell the dad he is 15 too

Answer 1

You just have to tell him. You guys were grown enough to have the sexual intercourse now you need to be grown enough to take on responsibility. Just br straight forward with him and let him know that you guys need to be in this together you didn't complete this task. If he doesn't take responsiblity than girl you take care of it because waiting around will only cause you heart ache. You are 15 with your whole life ahead of you if you keep this child make sure you have support for you and the baby. Always stay positive and let know one bring you down. I hope now though you realize just having sex is not a game. I had a baby at 19 yes I was a little older but I wasn't in a relationship just having sex. Not a good way to go. I did meet a wonderful man later and now I have a beautiful daughter and a son and things have worked out. Just stay focused and keep your head high hunnie.

Answer 2

before you tell the dad ... did you tell your parents? this is a serious problem with serious consequences. if you do want to tell the dad first, just go some where alone where you can talk w/o having to whisper like a park or for a walk around the block you know and just tell him the truth. but i would defenitly tell my parents before the dad because you want to talk with the people who this will affect more, you and your parents! his opinion is extra, and not the most important one right now in this situation. the dececions you make from this moment on will only affect you, your baby and your family, remember you are still a minor and because of that your parents are STILLl legally responsible for YOU AND YOUR ACTIONS. begin this quest by making the first important decicion the right one. show your parents that even though you made a mistake you want to be accounted for it. be strong sweety and good luck!

Answer 3

Having a baby is such a HUGE thing~ even when you're older and married. Talk with your parents or an adult you trust. It'll totally suck, but you can't move forward without it. There's not going to be an easy way to tell the dad. Just try to be calm and rational. And maybe have someone there with you if you're scared of how it will go....just in case. It's NOT the end of the world. Hang in there.

Answer 4

One you need to tell your parents then you tell him because since youare so young you have so many risk factors in child birth, you could have a stillborn or a prematuere birth. But the father needs t oknow as soon as possible. Im not saying have an abortion but you need to consider how this is going to affect your FAMILIES LIFE AND HIS FAMILIES LIFE. He needs to be upfront and tell the truth dont try to make sound better than it is.

Answer 5

You just have to tell him...just like you're telling us. Then both of you need to talk to your parents and make a decision.
Remember it's not easy to take on the responsibility of a child.
Good Luck.

Answer 6

you need to tell your parents first so that they can know whats going on and be there to support you and explain to you the options you have concerning the baby, then tell the guy after you have had a long talk with your family....

Answer 7

Talk to your parents. Figure out if you really want to have this child or not. Having a kid is a HUGE responsibility. If you choose to keep the child Then tell him.

Answer 8

Oops! We should have used condoms. Want me to be with you when you tell your parents?

With parental support, this is doable for you and the baby. Best wishes.

Answer 9

Honey I feel for you!!! Just tell him straight out, he should know so don't sweet cake it!! What are you going to do you only 15? Let me know okay? I care! [e-mail]

Answer 10

Talk to your parents before you go telling this kid. Decide with them what is best for you. And next time, use protection.