how do i find him on the net for free to have closure.
2007-04-26 06:48:28 · 6 answers · asked by SweetieGoat 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I'm with Rhio9, who can get over a first love? Or forget it for that matter. That is what makes it so memorable is that is the numero uno of your life.
Sorry sweetie, he can only have one "number One" I know it must suck to not be "It".
2007-04-26 07:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a fellow Virgo, I'm a little on the fence about this question. On the one side I don't love like I formerly loved before being screwed over, but on the other side realize everyone goes through emotional turmoil and some individuals feel it is an effectual method to throw their inadequacies and dirt at the rest of us, and thus break my Virgo heart, spit on it, and take advantage of it.
This being said, as a Virgo, break my heart, I'll never love you again without good reason, and a re-establishment of trust which will take an extremely long time, and I will never love you with the same intensity.
However, I will always be friends with the person. No questions asked, but explanations required of why you decided to treat me in a manner that was not respectful
2007-04-26 15:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you have closure is just by letting that door close.
I hate that you guys almost always neglect to mention who dumped who. If you dumped him, then it's probably just guilt and lonliness, and the only way you get past that is to understand people make mistakes, forgive yourself, and then let it go. Then focus on the here and now, appreciate all the little things in your life, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and think positively.
If he dumped you, then it's even easier because he didn't have what it takes to go the distance. Let that door close, and lock it tightly. Open the door in front of you, don't look back, and have fun.
BTW, I am a virgo, and my first love was more than 20 years ago (not telling), and I couldn't care less what she's doing, where she is, etc. So yes. You get over the ones who treat you badly more easily than the rest.
2007-04-26 07:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey I'm a Virgo and my first love was almost 40 years ago. Been over her a long time still have a place in my heart for her. There is no closure you just need to let it go and look ahead. Just keep on keepin on. Luck to ya in your future.
2007-04-26 07:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by redmarc316 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a fellow virgo... It's really hard to get over. I still think about my first love even though I've moved on. You just have to channel your logical mind and push forward. Don't bother getting closure.
2007-04-26 06:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Avvi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Virgo...aahhh you got love the virgos,,,Being a virgo is a good thing. We love forever even if a person does us wrong we still love them all.. One problem thought will be that we fall in love very quick. We live for love. I still love my first love may he rest in peace. But i never forgot him and even though i would be with someone else just seeing him made me feel warm and fuzzy inside. Oh i miss his crazy ***. But of coarse i am happily married now and i love my virgo man more and more each day! But you could never forget your 1st love....
2007-04-26 07:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by mrs.McCoy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a virgo. I"m over him, but will always love him. I just know that he's not good for me and we'll never be together again.
2007-04-26 06:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are mutable so they can get over things easier. Chances are you have maybe a Scorpio moon? Go to astro.com and figure it out. As for finding him? I couldn't tell ya.
2007-04-27 11:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by billys_rose 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some things you don't get closure for, sorry to say.
366 birthdays a year.
2007-04-26 06:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NObody gets over first loves.
2007-04-26 06:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋