Ive been stabbed on the back a couple of times..and met some few people who are a bunch of liars..
my heart has been broken a couple of times..
that now I cant feel a thing?
yesterday visited my friend and met her wifes brother she actually said some nasty mean things not about me..
but hinting me to not come anymore in her house~
(this is between her and my friend and trying to get back on being mean to me)
that I actually didn't care?
I didn't say nothing back to her just stood and kept on laughing and talking 2 my friend and not give her some attention~
Now every1 is saying I was wrong and that I was suppose to say something back to her..
she didn't disrespect me..but I actually didn't care..
as if she was the last person I would wanna scratch.
the problem is you could lie to meand break my heart right now and I wouldn't care..is this normal?
2007-04-26 06:44:24 · 8 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok listen sometimes you gotta go to into defense mode, because you've been hurt so much, you just don't want to deal with it anymore. It's not weird, but i wouldn't associate myself with those people at all. I mean honestly, i would just block myself from them. Don't worry you'll get through this phase...some day you'll wake up and you'll be over it...SO hang in there
2007-04-26 09:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Golden, no "weird award" for you as you didn't shoot anyone, flatten their tyres or call a press conference when you left the building. It's called "disassociation" by the shrinks and prudence or common sense by your peers. You're taking a break from idiocy right now and may again later develop the ability to be hurt once again, but not as readily.
2007-04-26 14:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard there is an African saying, that goes "A lion doesn't swat at flies". At some point in life you should move past the pest people around you. You've developed a healthy self image. Good job.
2007-04-27 22:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is normal
you have built up an imunity to things that go on but dont really matter, you have learned through experience how not to react, if only more people were like you the world would be a calmer place
2007-04-26 13:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl
You're feeling jaded right now and thats fine.
No one can tell you how to react, so don't listen.
I think you are just mature and ignoring someone else being ignorant with you shows that you're an adult.
Good for you...now if you have problems sorting out your feelings later then you need to address it.
watch this, its funny:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0H9Q2pJFvU
2007-04-26 13:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you care? smile and moved on. you have a career. work hard, you will succeed. someday. when you reach the top. you'll see how peoples react infront of you. you love it. that time, everyone want to be your friend and they will talk nice. i hope, this help.
2007-04-27 08:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by kenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont care about those people
move on ur life and ignore people who try to get u down
2007-04-26 13:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just move on with your life. it's proof enough that she is not a true friend.
2007-04-26 15:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Cassandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋