My husband and I have incredible sex - very long sessions some days - and some days 3 and 4 times a day if life permits - but I want him to feel like a man in more than the physical way. Any suggestions?
2007-04-26 05:38:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband is always saying things like, "I feel like a failure," and "I don't deserve you," which are ridiculous. When he does something good, make sure he knows you've noticed. Feeling appreciated will do him more good than anything else.
2007-04-26 05:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by cross-stitch kelly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm... does he want to feel more like a man??
IN order to be a 'stereotypical male' (as opposed to any other), this is what needs to be done:
1. Don't let him do ANY household chores.
2. If you have kids, he's not aloud to do anything constructive (no diapers, feeding, ect.) besides play with them on HIS OWN TIME.
3. Have dinner ready on time every night and tell him to yell at you if it's not done.
4. Quit your job if you have one; he's got to be the breadwinner. Make sure he has a job were he has extra long hours so he doesn't have to spend time at home much.
5. Buy him a gift card to the local strip club.
6. He's not allowed to express ANY emotions...
7. Plan a threesome with a girl that's hotter than you...
I could go on... and on.. and on.
If your husband is having problems 'being a man', the issue that needs to be adressed is probably not the direct issue of feeling 'more like a man'. Why does he feel like this? Is society putting pressures on him? Something happen earlier in life?? All men have different qualities, all women hae different qualities, men and women often have the SAME qualities. It's not nice to stereotype people into 2 categlories that can never be crossed. If he doesn't feel like a 'man' then does he feel like a 'woman'?? There's nothing wrong with that, but your marraige probably won't last...
Give him support. Ask him what HE wants.
2007-04-26 05:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Thinking 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
3 or 4 times a day!?! Don't you ever get out of bed? There is the house to clean isn't there? Providing for his fam makes a man feel like a man.
2007-04-26 05:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any woman can make a man feel like a man in bed......the trick is to make him feel like a man OUTSIDE the bedroom.
Unfortunatly, there are different types of personalities of men, each which their own distinct needs....since I know nothing about your husband, I cannot even suggest how to make him feel like a man.
The first step in serving our men, is KNOWING our men.
By the way, are you two newlyweds? Because it seems you sure have a lot of time on your hands for sex.
2007-04-26 05:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he already feels like a man if you are both having such incredible sex. For one, a man likes to know he is pleasing his woman...lol. But if you are talking about the more traditional sense, make him hot, home-cooked meals and have them laid out on the table when he gets in from work (guess that means to be more domestic...lol).
2007-04-26 05:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by Tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he say he doesn't feel like a man or something?
Empower him.
As you said, manhood doesn't just involve a roll in the hay...let him pay some bills, do some yardwork, do manly things...he'll feel more like a man if you permit him to be one.
2007-04-26 05:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly just let him be that stereo typed macho man at times....let him do the manual labor around the house( if u can fix it cool but don't throw it in his face). Don't make him feel to stupid bout answers he gives..just nod and smile. have fun no matter what and don't try to show u have more or complete control over what he does..it sucks getting permission to do just bout anything....P.S. NO BELITTLEING IN FRONT OF FRIENDS, FAMILY AND PUBLIC!!
2007-04-26 07:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Joe F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is there a reason why you spend soooooooooooooooo much time in bed with your lllllllllooooong sessions and for who knows what reason...we need to have that information?
any way...
less time in bed + more time having meaningful conversation + less time in bed x less about you more about him / by 3-4 times day = CRAP! i forgot what i was doing....ok do you want to start again ?
2007-04-26 06:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like your man to feel more like one send him and some buddy to a sporting event. now if you wont to be with him when he needs to be manly then taking him camping for a 4 days. man like to do thing be out in the world so anything for asking him to build you a new home to please fix my car is what men like to do.. hope this helps and if he is a geek like me i love fixing computer and that pretty manly in it self. (LOL)
2007-04-26 05:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Tell him that he is strong and how much you appreciate him. Encourage him in other areas like, if he is good at mopping the floor say, "Can't nobody mop like you honey!" And mean it....say it with a kiss and a hug. Write him a love letter.
2007-04-26 05:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by Hopps-skotch12 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋