How to be nice?

Question

My husband recently brought to my attention that I constately are a ***** to people. Even our friends. Its true. I say things maybe I shouldnt and in a ***** way. Do you have any ideas on how I can stop being a ***** and Be Nice. Thanks

Answer 1

I would start by being courteous, like please and you're welcome. If someone insults you, try to ignore them. Give compliments, instead of saying bad things. Listen when people are talking, and don't be too critical. It's best to treat with respect, they will take you more seriously. Be sincere when you're not nice because even when you're on the phone with someone they can tell by the tone of your voice, but this doesn't mean to let anyone step over you.

Being nice improve self confidence, it makes you more enjoyable to be around.

I hope that helps

Answer 2

lol, if you have to ask your screwed. Really though, if your sending barbs, and making nasty comments your probably bitter about something or have a chip, figure that one out and you can eliminate some of the bad, then just start thinking about others before yourself, thats what nice is; your ability to be outgoing in a positive manner.

Answer 3

Well, in the cases where I feel I can't be nice I try to just mind my own business. Maybe if you don't worry about it too much, but are aware that you want to have manners, then you can improve.

Answer 4

You and your husband need to have an honest talk about who you really are and what your personality really is.
If you are a #$%$# to people because its in you nature and how you were raised, I see no change in the future, People have to accept you for who you are.

Answer 5

if something rude pops up in your head try thinking about something else or excuse yourself, go to another room and whisper the rude comment to yourself if u can't contain it.

Answer 6

just treat people as you would want to be treated

Answer 7

think twice before you say something