my hubby and i have been married for a year next month. we are both teens, he is in iraq and we have a baby boy. we have been together for 4 years total and have had the worst relationship imaginable. despite our harsh relationship, somthing has keept us together. well, up until recently i havent felt the same about my husband. for some reason i really do feel like i have to spend the rest of my life with this man. its not like he has been there more for me to make me feel this way. he is on the other side of the world and we hardly talk. but today i asked my husband if we could grow old together, and he cried. i think he has started to really feel that way as well.
i just want to know if any marred people feel this deeply aobut their spouse? Like there is NO doubt in your mind that you will be a million more times in love 60 years from now?
2007-04-26 05:08:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Been married to the same woman for 23 years. Lived together for 25.
Hope that answers your question. Oh...and I married at 26. Hope yours lasts but teenage marriages have a very bad track record. Good luck...and may hubby come home safe and in one piece.
2007-04-26 05:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grow more in love with my husband everyday and I've been with him for 6 years, I am 22 almost 23. We have grown together, made changes and have learned how to deal with each other when we're upset or mad at each other. I can't stay mad at him for long, like maybe an hour just because he looks at me in a way and all the tension goes. I'm a imploder personality and he can really be an exploder and he always knows when I'm quietly yelling at him in my head and we'll talk. There are ways to rekindle the lost time with your hubby, him being gone can be a huge lose for your relationship but being there for him while he can't for you is the best gift you can give him right now. Send him letters everyday, email, send pictures and heck write him dirty letters for fun. It can help in many ways, just be supportive even though you might not be feeling in the mood.
2007-04-26 12:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Emily M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS A BOND THAT KEEPS YOU TOGEATHER AND THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE A CHILD IS LIKE AN EXTRA THREAD TO THAT BOND OF LOVE ALL COUPLES HAVE THINGS THAT AREN'T THE BEST TO GO THREW BUT IF YOU REMEMBER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE EACH OTHER CAN MAKE IT YOU ARE HAVING TO BE STRONG NOW WITH HIM SO FAR AWAY BUT ONE DAY HE WILLL BE HOME TO HOLD YOU AND HELP YOU THREW THE HARD STUFF JUST BE PATIENT THIS DAY WILL COME
AND WHEN YOU TAKE VOWS THAT MEANS TO GROW OLD TOGEATHER TRUST ME ITS ALL WORTH IT ISNT LOVE GREAT !
2007-04-26 12:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should be careful what you say to him while he is deployed, it is very hard for them to deal with things and keep their heads clear. All you need to do is support him but don't get super mushy or threaten to leave, it would kill his morale and he wouldn't be as careful and alert as he should be.
Take care and I hope he returns safely to a happy family
2007-04-26 12:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We both feel exactly that way. There's just no other way for us.
2007-04-26 12:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes!! Love is grand isn't it
2007-04-26 12:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by ALF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋