my husband tells me that he loves me but he has never given me more than $160 to have for myself at a time. he is only happy with me when having sex and he dosent care if i am wet or not.many times i have painful cuts in my private part becos he forced his male organ in and this person can beat me when i annoy him. pls help me i am confused is this love, intimacy or romance? am at a crossroad now.
2007-04-26 04:47:14 · 16 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is none of the above. When you partner truely loves you he wants your experience to be as great as his, so if he didnt have the time to get you "ready" he would at least get some lubricant. Why do you let him to this to you? It cant be enjoyable on any level!! i am not sure what the money has to do with this, but in a marriage you shouldnt be on an allowance, and if a man raises his hand to you or ever calls you by anything other than your name or a pet loving name then its abuse and thats NOT LOVE> you need to leave him!
2007-04-26 04:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love...questioning that you'll not thoughts spending something of your existence with the different man or woman no be counted what they land up searching like. Romance...He shows up on your doorstep with roses and candies and sweeps you off your feet. he's each little thing you have ever wanted in a guy (You ignore all the failings at this degree) He spouts poetry less than the moonlight and also you under no circumstances favor the time with him to end. sex...regularly occurs sometime after romance and beforehand the feared morning after. this may ensue even as your in love, in lust, or merely fairly *****. Takes 2 persons who're desiring something that the different can provide. would not ought to very last a lengthy time period, a quicky works.
2016-12-04 21:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not forced. Intimacy is not forced. Romance is not forced.Your husband need to go to prison and have someone force him to do what is being doing to you. Young lady get help and leave the loser. Life is to short to be abused like that call your nearest women shelter and get advice. God Bless Good Luck
2007-05-01 12:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by fhi21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance is not synonymous with sex and is not related. Being romantic is doing things that don't require penetration or intercourse. Intimacy is just sharing your closest thoughts and feelings with someone. Love would have respect for your feelings and putting the others feelings before your own. His actions are totally Selfish, Lustful, and wild. He loves himself much more than he loves or even cares for you.
2007-04-26 04:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Housecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No darling this is abuse.. No man should ever hit a women and even though you are married it is still rape.. He could be seeing a prison wall before to long.. I say get the hell out.. Next time he hits you could be the last time you see anything. You're life is a risk and that is never a joke... Call family and get away... If you have children do it for them.... LOL>>>>>
2007-05-01 04:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know the difference between love, intimacy and romance when you are with him, then you shouldn't be with him. it sounds like he is pleasing himself. If you loved yourself why would you let someone hurt you that way. Get away from him. to answer your question it is none of the above, it is called abuse and nobody deserves that not even you.
2007-04-30 19:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by friendlygrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off money given to you has nothing to do with love. Maybe that's all he can afford to give you, I don't know your financial situation. As far as sex, maybe you need to talk to him about foreplay or let him know how bad it hurts or get some lube. No one respects you or deserves you if they beat you. From what I've read it's none of the above.
2007-05-02 15:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He tells you what you want to hear, gives you a stipend and brutalizes you. This is a control freak getting his rocks off. Visit with a friendly attorney and give him a wake up call and some walking papers. Do this before you wind up dead or seriously injured.
2007-04-26 05:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The $160 should be grounds for divorce I tell ya!
2007-04-26 04:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like any of those to me. This guy has problems...and if you weren't married to this guy it almost sounds like rape. I think you should really take a look at how you feel about him. This is your life too and you should make the right decisions.
2007-04-26 04:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by Han Solo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋