my friend confessed to me that he likes sticking his finger and anything of the correct size as he put it up himself, does this make him gay and should it make me change our relationship?
2007-04-26 04:34:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Gives you more choices in what to buy him for his birthday
2007-04-26 04:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop being his friend...depends on what you mean by "friend". To tell you such intimate details of his is questionable unless your intimate with him or he's been a comfort close friend. In either case you may want to express how you feel and ask he not divulge more if it makes you queasy. But NO this does not mean he is gay, Not to say he's not gay, just this is not a sign of being gay. And no I'm not gay. Nothing wrong with being Friends with gays unless religion or beliefs differ, not good idea to be intimate with him though.
2007-04-26 04:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by akasandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not gay at all, unless it's a finger of a person of the same sex as him being stuck in there. I hear this alot and it is funny!
The only thing that would make him gay is if he had sex with another man. and even if he did it is a part of his life you shouldnt be too involved in anyway, So it should not change anything in your relationship.
2007-04-26 04:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by knobs8880 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't make him gay, it feels good for gay and straight guys to do it. Butttt I would say there is a chance he could be depending on how much he likes it.
Nothing should change in fact in my opinion gay friends make the best friends
2007-04-26 04:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ravioli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes a difference on how old he is - experimentation as a young teen is common, If he is mid teens or older, he may be hinting to you and may be ready to try something with you or see if you are interested. If he is your friend, why would you change your relationship? If you do not want to experiment, just tell him that is not for you and leave it at that.
2007-04-26 04:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Brent W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that makes him gay he just like the feeling it gives
It all depends on wether or not he's still attracted to women
& u might like to know a guys G-spot is often found in that area
2007-04-26 04:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it change your relationship? are you not up to be a friend to a gay person? who knows if he's gay, only he can know that, but i will say that it's proven that even straight guys like a little anal play ... regardless of any of that it shouldn't effect your friendship!!!
2007-04-26 04:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by sebkls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt make him gay. Maybe he just likes the feeling. Or maybe he wants a girl to stick her fingers up inside him? that wouldnt make him gay, would it?...........or would it!? lol!
2007-04-26 04:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jules 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does not make him gay, and if he were, that is not a reason to change your relationship with a friend
2007-04-26 04:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry let him enjoy himself, even if he is gay why would you change your relationship? it doesnt mean he will jump on you at every given opportunity.
if he asks you to join him then you may feel different and i could completely understand that.
2007-04-26 04:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
many straight men like a finger in their back side during sex...apparently men's G-spot is in their anus...so it gives them more pleasure...(heard this from many people, never tried on anyone...wouldn't even think of trying)
your friend maybe is not gay, but he likes it a bit up the bum...
2007-04-26 04:40:17 · answer #11 · answered by black_dahlia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋