Im into some pretty kinky stuff but I have been asked to do something with someone and im not sure Im up to?

Question

Yesterday in a heated chat about some fun a young sub/slave girl asked me If I would... p*ss on her and in her mouth when we get together next week for our session, stunned I didnt know how to reply to that Im mean I thought I had very few limits and an understanding of all fetishes, however In this case I was well brought to a new relization about limits and I dont know anything about this type of play, I dont want to disappoint her but still Im clueless as to how to politely tell her Im umm not into that kind of play or how to play that way should I decide to try it,

Is it safe ?????

How do you keep It clean and less messy ????

Answer 1

Great question and answers so far.

First I would like to commend you on asking before just doing. As stated before BDSM is a agreement between persons participating. If one or more persons are not into a specific fetish then its poss able to not preform that fetish. Altho most people have some knowledge of what fetishes the like and would like to take part in, you have done the first step to prepare yourself in preforming in a safe way.

Is it safe? Yes as far a urine is sterile and as long as you don't drown her you will be fine.

How do you keep it clean and less messy? Yes the shower is a good place for ease, you can place a Tarp down in any location, and a lot of people just use older sheets and towels to absorb the liquids. Wash after wards.

For you to prepare drink about a half gallon of bottled about 30 min to 1 hour before you start. Try not to eat or drink anything that you know makes your urine smell bad.

The pee fetish is becoming more known as more people are admitting they like it to others. I do not have this fetish, I have tried it on both ends and did not find it to be appealing to me. But I know and have helped others at local events preform such acts.

Good luck and try it once at least.

Answer 2

The basic thing about BDSM is that it's supposed to be "safe, sane, AND consensual"----so if you're not comfortable doing something, whether you're a top/Dominant or a bottom/slave (pick terms of choice), you SAY so.

"Your kink is not my kink, but your kink is OK." is commonly how it's expressed in our area. And how you phrased it at the end of your first paragraph is just fine. "I don't know about that kind of play" or "never tried it; not sure if I'd enjoy it (or am up to it, or if it's safe, or if I'm comfortable with it)" are all fine. Talk about it with her. And with other kinky folk. Communication is critical---learn what's pushing your buttons, and what's squicking you out.

In terms of safety, keeping it less messy, etc.----can't go into too much here (lack of time), but suggest you check out the classic BDSM reference books (available through Amazon and many booksellers): SM 101 by Wiseman (an experienced EMT; very safety conscious); Screw the Roses (Devon & Miller---good generalist info); On the Safe Edge--"Trevor Jacques" (4 authors, incl. an MD and a dentist).

Read. Talk with other players in the Scene. Communicate with your play partner! And remember, even Tops have limits---and safewords. So have fun, and play safe.

Answer 3

hmmmmm how about u do it in the bathroom?? i mean, u dont really have to do something u r strongly not into... but i dont see the problem in p*ssing on some1 who wants u to... is it going to hurt u?? does it hurt whne u p*ss?? lol i doubt it... but why don't u help her get some pleasure.... she seems to like it, why not go for it??? i mean, its not like u r gong to get hurt or anything as far as i know... now if u r strongly not into that... then tell her u feel that's dissgusting, and that u would like to do someothing else... but not that...