i saw lost of Flirtatious text messages on my galfriends phone. even a picture of a guys dick. should i run with the idea or buy the bullshit that shes only flirtin with em.
ladies please advice???????
2007-04-26 04:18:15 · 13 answers · asked by one1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to ask her about it. She may just be flirting but then again something could be going on....Why on earth would she have a picture on her phone of someones penis other than yours????That right their is not right and you need to get to the bottom of it...
Does she know this guy personally??
Either way you need to talk to her, that is the only way you will know for sure..
Although there are signs that can indicate that your girlfriend is two-timing you, the thing to keep in mind is that you're looking for a change in her behavior patterns. The key to spotting a cheating girlfriend is change , so if she's always been a guy's girl and has a lot of male friends, don't get all paranoid..Some of the signs are
1. She's no longer as needy...If she was never able to go shopping, exercise, or cross the street alone, and she suddenly doesn't need your company, it may mean that someone else is filling your shoes. It's possible that she just needs time to herself, but if she's unusually independent when she used to be overly needy, it may signal that she's just no longer as needy... of you.
2. She no longer gets angry...She used to get angry if you didn't want to meet her for lunch or come out with her and her friends, but now everything you do is all right by her. Once upon a time, your every move had to be premeditated, but now all the small things you used to mess up aren't enraging her. This could be a good thing, but you wonder why she no longer cares.
3. She's being secretive...She's no longer sharing her daily events with you, and in order to find out what she's doing, you'd have to break open her diary because she's not volunteering any information regarding the goings-on of her life. Of course, you could always ask...
4.She places the focus on you...When you do ask her questions, she turns the tables on you. The former chatterbox's batteries have run out and when you ask her how her night was, mum's the only word. It's now all about you, you, you, rather than "I did this" and "I went here last night."
5.She showers you with pleasure...Now that it's all about you, your girlfriend is always complimenting you, asking you to go out, giving you "I love you" cards for no reason whatsoever, and even offering to wash your car and watch the boxing match with you. While these gestures are more than sweet, it's this kind of overcompensating behavior that can make one suspicious. If she's bombarding you with niceties, it might be nice to know what's really going on.
6. She doesn’t mind you spending a lot of your free time with you friends, watching TV, or playing on the computer (or any other thing that you do a lot of).
7. she hardly talks to you anymore.
8. She starts fights for no apparent reason
9. She has started to work alot more ((over-time))
10. She is avoiding sex with you
Those are some of the things to look out for though if it doesn't necessarily mean she is cheating but it's a good sign that somethings going on
2007-04-26 04:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is taking this so called flirting just a little too far, I bet if the shoe were on the other foot she would be upset and ask you to stop, let her know if it is just flirting you are not comfortable with it and would like it to stop. Now I got a text message from a girlfriend of mine and she sent it to all her women friends it was a picture of a guys penis so that I wouldn't be too concerned with unless I saw her holding it or it being in her mouth.....lol......(lighten up just joking) but really I would confront her about the text messaging, its not fair to you
2007-04-26 04:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I have to ask is why you are using her phone. If you pay for it that's one thing, but I wouldn't do that to my wife. You're going to have to tell her that you saw them.
She, on the other hand, should not be "flirting" with guys to where they're sending dick pics.
Y'all need to examine your relationship, because I dont' see it lasting. There seem to be trust issues on your part and tease issues on hers.
2007-04-26 10:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, let me advise you to drop her like a hot potato. I guess if you caught her in bed with one of them, she would just be flirting there also.
2007-04-26 04:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be flirting with them but it also means she is having fun doing so coz she isnt finiding anything interesting in u. she might be cheating on u...look b4 it goes out of hand
2007-04-26 04:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by RCD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you go through her phone? Obviously you dont trust her or else you wouldnt have done that. Since you dont trust her, end the relationship. Without trust... there is NO relationship!
2007-04-26 04:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you obviously you do think something is going on. Tell her it bothers you. if it stops she cares and it was just fun. If it continues move on
2007-04-26 04:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by glbenner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice, dude, but I'd run!
2007-04-26 04:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting only..maybe she was just curious...this is not conslusive evidence that she is having a sexual relationship with another...ask her??
2007-04-26 04:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had to use a wide angle lens to get it in then I would say you are in trouble.
2007-04-26 04:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋