I have to spend the weekend with some people who dont like me and i dont want to be in a bad mood, i have to go out with them and spend all my time with them. what can i tell myself to stay positive and get thru the wknd smiling?
2007-04-26 02:10:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just act friendly with them...you never know you may like them if you try to get to know them better
2007-04-26 02:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would not go and waste my weekend with people that I do not like. Now Family is different. If these folks are family then put on a smile and just grin and bare it. It is not the end of the world. Maybe you can learn something from them or better yet, YOU can teach them something...like how nice you are and some manners. If they see u acting kindly, then maybe they would catch on.
If it is a school project or just some peer grp, then u might make a new decision on how this will benefit you. I mean these guys may be dopers or crooks. Who knows?? U really did not give enough info for us to correctly answer this question. But what I can tell u is OUTSIDE family, I would NOT sweat the load. What is the worse that can happen? Can they take ur birthday away for being a no show.??
Good Luck!
2007-04-26 09:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family? Just smile and be your most charming self. Remind yourself that you are a great person just for tolerating these people for a whole weekend. Plan some kind of reward for yourself at the end of the weekend - something that makes you smile every time you think about it and then focus on that when you start feeling down.
2007-04-26 10:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jbuns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting yourself through this, why spend time with people who don't like you, there's no way that you can be in a good mood if you are surrounded by so much negativity. If I was you I wouldn't go, why don't you spend your time with people who want to get to know you.
2007-04-26 10:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by NJAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A family event, I assume, or perhaps friends of your significant other. First of all, be yourself. If the digs start coming, stick up for yourself; no one should allow themselves to be treated like dirt. It doesn't mean you have to get nasty, just show them you're not going to be treated like a door mat.
2007-04-26 09:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to spend the weekend with them?
just tell yourself that you are better than them and that its only 2 days to get throu
2007-04-26 09:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by miss79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind yourself why you dont get on with these people and that its not your fault they dont like you it's theirs and if all else fails picture them naked all weekend if nothing else you will have a giggle!!!!
2007-04-26 09:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by pheobe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 words-Gin And Lemonade!
Its the cause and solutions to all of lifes little problems!!
Seriously tho-just brush it off, the time will pass, and just dont take any cr*p off them!
2007-04-26 09:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by mel a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going on this weekend knowing people feel this way?
2007-04-26 09:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i love my self. and anybody who wants 2 put me in a bad mood, must get my permission 1st!
2007-04-26 09:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by Caz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋