2007-04-26 01:00:50 · 22 answers · asked by ANGELA B 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Move out then. Where is the question?
2007-04-26 01:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you have no where to go, stay where you are & in the meantime go to see a solicitor at the Citizens Advice Bureau its free.
Do this quickly & without him knowing.
You may be able to get an injunction to stop him throwing you out so that you have enough time to sort out a place to live.
In respect of your problem with your partner, you should look at what led up to him telling you to go.
Was you nagging him & causing him unnecessary grief.
It may be that you can both sit down & talk about things rationally & both agree to make changes to accommodate each other.
For the childs sake it is better to have 2 parents & I can tell you that having kids is the best thing that ever happened for me.
Have a freindly discussion & sort yourselves out, you can really enjoy family life as long as you dont allow yourselves to get stuck in a rut & you do different things .
I hope that you are able to sort it out.
You know it makes sense
Have a happy life preferably together.
2007-04-26 08:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got yourself a corking bloke there!
Why do you have to move out? Has your relationship ended or does he just find it hard living with you? Is he scared at the prospect of fatherhood? Do you think that you and your child would be better off without him around? Can you afford/do you want to raise a child on your own?
Unfortunately, it's hard to give a decent answer here as I'm not sure what your question is. Maybe some more details will result in some better advice.
2007-04-26 08:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by angelina.rose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Twenty is what...five months? You'll be fine. At 8 months I moved house. On my own :) Get yourself on the waiting list for council housing immediately - call your local council offices (you'll find the number online/in Yellow Pages. Also look into Housing Authority housing - you can research this online, just Google it. As far as the emotional side of all this, I can't really help, but I do know that amazing things are possible - people will help, and the amount of help offered will surprise you - NB TAKE IT ALL!!! If this man forces you onto the street while carrying his child, or if living with him becomes unbearable and you have to leave, it isn't the end of anything worth having anyway. If you have money and means, I'd just f**k off and rent somewhere near friends/family straightaway. Otherwise - do the above if I were you, and stay with family/friends til you get sorted. Above all, don't despair! Nobody needs a man, least of all a craven waste of space like him, to carry, birth, feed, wean or raise a perfectly wonderful child. It's bloody hard, but worth it. All the best!
2007-04-26 08:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
does he know you are pregnant. if so then it is best that you part for a while , men cant get their heads round pregnancy as quickly as women. maybe he should move out instead. it is only fair. get some advice from the CSA. he may come round with time even if it is another 4 months. go to his parents and ask their advice. keep your chin up and dont stress too much do some yoga and breathing exercises. think about you and the baby. this is not the end of the world.
2007-04-28 09:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest a lawyer. If you can't afford one, go through legal aid. Move out now. If this guy is kicking you out now, chances are he's going to try and avoid child support. Go after him NOW. Now, do you live in an apartment or house ? Do you rent or own ? If your name is on the lease, you can tell him to sod off. If your name is on any legal rental document, he can't kick you out. You might want to talk to the landlord (if you rent) and find out IF he has any legal cause for kicking you out.
Either way, it's not a healthy environment for you or your baby. You could also qualify for sunsidised housing. They sometimes give presedence to young single mothers (there are specific agencies in most communities to help women in your situation)
Good Luck
2007-04-26 08:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by swan_jun_g3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that's tough but he could just be freaked out by the situation (and not really mean it?)
i would suggest trying to talk - but not getting into arguments or stressful situation because that won't be good for any of you.
if this doesn't work - i would recommend staying with a friend or relative or getting a place of your own.
(explain the way you feel about him if you can)
in time and with "adult conversation" it might all make sense.
good luck with the baby (and your man)
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2007-04-28 07:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Joanne Hunter (Jo) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is a story here, like not hearing the whole truth.
Like did you just tell him you are pregnant?
Or is their any chance it is not his?
Those are two that I have seen in my life, but there are others possible. If it's anything like that, then as a man I approve of him for not accepting infidelity. If not and he just up and ran, he is a piece of ****.
2007-04-26 08:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Nicholas P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u know u can find a better person that will treated u right ok so go and do better. if u need some one to talk to u am the friend u can do it with ok
later ho like the baby it's sooooooooo cute ccccuuuuuuttttteeeeeeeeee
2007-04-26 11:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by fredie y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume the house is in his name if so then get out and leave him to it. You are far better off without him. sounds a right ar*H*le. I know its sounds harsh and probably not what you want to hear. But you will soon realise you dont need him
If the house is in joint names tell him to get out.
2007-04-26 08:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by maka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like much of a partner to me.
2007-04-26 09:04:11 · answer #11 · answered by wadacious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋