2007-04-26 00:30:47 · 14 answers · asked by Willy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess its either time to move on or join in.
2007-04-26 00:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by JENNIFER W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key.
Find out what she is all about. You may find that her love for you is still strong and that she just needs to spread her wings in the direction of a different crowd.
You should do your best to be supportive. You monetary situation affects her too. Unless what you are saying is that her lesbian lover is better off.
Anyway, I wish you both the best of luck.
2007-04-27 05:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to calm down, sit down and talk to her when you are ready. I do have a friend, she is married for about 10 years and 3 year ago she learned that she was a lesbian too, they have good married. The husband talk to her, told her how much she loves her and he just said, "it up to you to make the right decision, just to let you know whatever your decision I be there to help you through". Her decision choosing her family makes her husband happy. She on the other hand is happy too. She said her family is the most important!!!!!!!. I hope for you the same thing.
2007-04-26 07:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by linda c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a bi female - she may be lesbian or she may be bi. Its more common than people think - I have slept with quite a few married women/with bfs, and been chatted up by quite a few as well.
I have been with couples where it was actually the wife's fantasy to go with another woman - her man would either watch or join in later.
Anyway, I would suggest that you talk with her and find out if she wants to remain married and just sleep with other women or she wants to be with another woman.
If you need anyone to chat with you can mail me elfreda6969_2@yahoo.co.uk.
2007-04-26 07:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by ella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a bridge and get over it. Some guys would just die to have the opportunity to see two birds get it on. Go for it and enjoy it while it lasts!
2007-04-26 07:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by shimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and decide what you want to do about it. Assuming you won't live with it, start untangling your affairs from hers and get set towards moving out and starting over. Day at a time; nothing has to happen over night.
2007-04-26 07:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she still love you? Does she still want to be married to you? Can you accept and tolerate her being a lesbian/bi?
2007-04-26 07:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and enjoy the show. Ask if you can join in.
2007-04-26 07:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change her. She is what she is. I guess it is best that you just try to be friends, if you have children together. If you don't, it is best to avoid her until the pain subsides.
2007-04-26 07:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if any of the girls shes doing are hot then she must share with you because thats what marriage is all about
2007-04-26 07:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋