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Hi there.. i been searching a lot of for who iam.. and all of these come to no sense, i dont feel like i belong to my family.. even to friends.. i have a thought of where i belong but man i been searching a lot and i guess the thoughts was just thoughts it was never reality.... so in the physical aspect ofcourse i belong to my family thats a reality but i feel there still something lacking?... something deeper pls help elders there.. pls nuture me ...

2007-04-26 00:28:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Sociology

10 answers

I weighed the options. For success, you must never make one target plunge. With open options, the world will be more receptive, especially if you prepare yourself physically, mentally, and morally.

2007-05-03 23:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 0 0

You belong where you are and where you wish to be. If you are not happy with where you have brought yourself try traveling a different path for a while. Is it that you don't belong or rather that you don't wish to? Reality is a view point. Most people make life too difficult. And sometimes if you quit searching so hard for yourself you will find yourself. The something you are lacking will never be found searching for yourself. sometimes you have to step out of self and find others, and sometimes time takes care of everything.

2007-04-30 18:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ell 3 · 0 0

Thats how I wondered too. Thats why I have very few friends and feel lonely sometimes. This is the result of our inner self or personality and interest. Sometimes, we have very unique interests and personality and it is very difficult for us to mingle with people although we are flocked to people not by our own choosing like school mates or family. I often try to read and find out more of my friends' interest and hobby so I feel comfortable when I am with them but by doing that I realised that is not being my actual self. They only solution is to mix around as much as possible in hope of finding someone with our kind of personality.

2007-05-01 21:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Vico 4 · 0 0

Amazing question...
But I am sorry I don't really have a definite answer, because I, too, am trying to find where I belong...
All I have to say now is that I definitely don't belong here, in the country that I live, where I am from, in my family, with my friends, and in my current life... I just don't connect...

So yes... I am still searching. And God willing, I will find what I am after. Hopefully, you will too.

2007-04-26 00:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

For some odd reason our environments give us the impression that in order for us to belong or fit in that we have to resemble others around us. But why? Why can't we just imbrace our differences. My suggestion is that you are were you belong (unless you are made to feel hurt or in danger). Perhaps your uniqueness is what your environment needs. Besides how can you shine if you are in an envirnoment where everyone is like you. So flaunt your differences. I hope this helps.

2007-04-26 01:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by black queen 2 · 0 1

Im 13, i dont know if i know where i belong. Does Anyone?
We will always have a sense of not belonging one way or another.
All i know is im happy in my life which is all that matters to me.

2007-04-26 01:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by Girl with a brain 3 · 0 0

It took me quite a while to finally find a place where I feel comfortable, and function efficiently, accurately, and with self satisfaction. However, change takes place continually. Because of this, and because of my increasing learning, my priorities can, and have changed. The results of my decisions have not always provided me with my anticipated results, but I have always learned from them. Just relax.

2007-05-03 14:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

spirtual growth
mediation
the spirit is free so it begins a search on earth to find its freedom

some are more in touch with their physical and some to their spirtual for me its about spitual
reconciliation

2007-05-03 21:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0 0

If you're going to college or plan to, then I suggest you major in Philosophy. It's the course that can help you try to seek answers to your questions.

2007-04-26 00:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Shienaran 7 · 0 1

whereever you are needed is where you belong

2007-04-26 11:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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