I agree with you .....110% I do not find "boy hips" at all attractive, women with curves looks so much better! Some women are naturally thin , others are natural with a "little more meat." As long as you are healthy and fit, what difference does it make? If you have to diet and struggle to keep your self in a size 3 its not natural!
There is such a thing as being too overweight just as there is a thing for being too underweight.....neither extreme is good.
2007-04-25 22:31:29
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answered by pamomof4 5
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I blame the media and 'fashionable' girl groups etc for what's happened to people. Pushing yourself to be so thin that you can only eat a yoghurt a day without gaining weight is a very sad reality.
There's nothing wrong with a bit of meat on girls- in fact I do like a bit of junk in the trunk. Something to hold on to is better than thinking you'll snap someone just by giving them a hug. I may be a size 8 but I have a junky bum, and 30E's and I love my curves. Sure I can't get into a size 0/4 but I wouldn't want to. I find up to a size 14, or small 16 to be very attractive, and below an 8 to be unattractive. Go on girls!! You show those twigs what curvy can do!!!
In love and light, Tasha x
2007-04-26 05:07:32
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answered by missytetra 3
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I think neither is "better" than the other. In the world of fashion and media skinny is portrayed as "better". Often around here or in day-to-day conversation there is a backlash saying these skinny girls look awful and unhealthy. Personally, I think there's no need to be putting down other peoples' bodyshapes. There are many different bodyshapes and equally many different tastes in what makes for a sexy body. I understand that you as a curvier lady (assuming you are, and by the way, I'm a size 14 myself) in the face of relentless media pressure need to defend your shape. I agree that 14 is a perfectly fine size to be and my boyfriend would prefer me a bit bigger even, if he had his way. But I do believe there are also girls that are naturally very thin and that there are guys who like that look. Nothing wrong with that either. It's not the skinny girls' fault that the world of fashion holds them up as the only way to be perfect.
2007-04-25 23:03:49
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answered by Silvana 2
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Women are always going to come in all shapes and sizes. This is going to be a never ending battle in society. Can't all body shapes and sizes be loved. Why does a size really matter. You can be the same size and weight as another person and look completely different. Your natural size is determined by your bone structure, height, muscle vs. fat mass. Why can't we just love ALL sizes and shapes and quit fighting over what is the best size to be. Can't men just love all sizes and shapes. I mean really...this is ridiculous. By the way I am a naturally size 0 women.....so I guess today I am disgusting and unattrative and tommorrow who knows. People all have different opionions. Are we always going to keep putting down one size or another to make another specific size person feel more confident. Women seem to get their confidence by putting others down and trying to get as many other people to agree with them. Everyone is beautiful and perfect to someone and just the way God made them. You can't be beautiful to everyone so why keep trying.
2007-04-26 01:31:09
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answered by Anonymous
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nothing whatsoever.
my girlfriend is about a size 14 and she is gorgeous as she is.
most men prefer going out with women with a bit of a shape instead of stick insects cos it just feels nicer being with someone who you can actually hold without fear of breaking them.another reason is that possibly they have a little more going on personality wise too as they know that the world doesn't revolve around you just cos you look good in hot pants or whatever.
2007-04-26 02:37:16
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answered by che 3
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it's the same reason Robbie Williams is popular. If the media tell the masses someting is cool, the masses believe it rather than making up their own mind - cos' that's too hard. Gay fashion designer's like women to look like young boys and millions of lemmings, therefore believe that's how women should look.
We live in a world of "The emperor's new clothes", people are too dim or too scared to make up their own minds on what they like.
2007-04-25 22:31:27
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answered by dave w 5
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I love my curves:) I lost alot of weight last year through stress but now I'm back to my normal size 12 and feel alot sexier
2007-04-26 01:00:17
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answered by sjlparis 2
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i agree with you that its better to be a size 12 or 14 then be skinny. its not healthy aswell and there not nicer at all.
2007-04-25 22:35:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Absolutely nothing. All those ridiculously thin women look and probably are quite ill. Those in the limelight and irresponsible and bad role models.
I think that women look most attractive when they're curvy, but healthy and happy.
2007-04-25 22:28:04
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answered by Wafflebox 5
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I have always said i would rather know a large girl with a nice personality rather than a mass of skin and bones with an attitude problem and absolutely no personality.
2007-04-25 22:25:32
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answered by freddiem 5
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