i am ugly and i dont kno wut 2 do?

Question

i'm not beautiful. in fact, i'm the exact opposite - i'm ugly. my boobs aren't big enough, my stomach's not flat enough, my arms have 2 much fat, my legs are completely hideous, everyone is constantly complaining about my hair at skool (they say i need a haircut, they say i should get it layered), i wear clothes that r 2 revealing, no guys like me, my feet are flat-footed and i cant fit into any cute or stylish shoes, i'm 5'5 and weigh 135 lbs which i KNO is overweight when ur 13. my fingers are fat, my hands are huge and square and my finger tips are stubby. my eyebrows are 2 bushy and my head is 2 big. my hair frizzes up 2 fast and i get huge mountain-sized zits everywhere on my face. i try all these crash diets although ppl say i'm not fat, but i'm CONSTANTLY being judged and critisized so they dont realize that they're only triggering my bad feelings and low self esteem. what is wrongi feel sooo hideous. i h8 myself especially my reflection. how can i feel more beautiful than i am?

also some girls actually went up 2 me and randomely said, "you're not that pretty" and i'm always being teased. i'm not an outcast, but i'm not that confident or popular either.

Answer 1

I'd be willing to bet that you are your own worst critic.

You've let those catty bimbos convince you that you are not one of the pretty people and you are exaggerating your faults.

You have a lot of growing to do and you have every chance in the world of growing into a world class beauty.

There is nothing you mentioned, other than the flat feet, that can't be cured by cosmetics, a good haircut, and some attractive clothes. And remember, you are 13, don't try to dress like some 25 year old hooker. Even the flat feet can be treated, have your parents take you to see a podiatrist, and talk to him about arch supports.

STOP those crazy crash diets!!!! They are bad for your health! Just try to eat a healthy sensible diet and get some excercise, walk, swim, do aerobics. But be moderate in both the eating and the exercising. Talk to your school nurse or the dietitian in the cafeteria, and your gym teacher for advise on diet and exercise.

And find some friends who don't make themselves feel better by insulting you. Those girls are not your friends.

And even if you do not grow to be one of those size 2 beanpoles, some of us guys appreciate young ladies with soft curves.

Hang in there Katy, you are going to grow up to be a gorgeous swan.

Doc

Answer 2

First of all, beauty is the very first thing to confidence. If you really think that you're overweight, than convince yourself to work out and live a healthier lifestyle. Dancing would be great too. About your clothing, don't wear too much revealing ones. Try more sophisticated clothing. Head to the salon! The parlors there ALWAYS know what to do. Get a manicure! If you get through this makeover, you'd definitely feel beautiful. BUT, it's not all about external beauy, girl. If you're a very kind-hearted lady and know how to get along with people, then stay that way. Don't be mean to people! Not even to those who were mean to you. Always remember that it's better to be nice and ugly than to be beautiful and have an attitude. ALWAYS remember that!

Answer 3

13 is a tough age and as someone else said, high schooler's can be cruel. Maybe you could go get your eyebrows waxed. There are some inexpensive hair care products out there that can help tame your hair some and a good cut that is flattering to your face can work wonders. They have push up bras to help you look larger if that really bothers you. You are too young to be wearing revealing clothes and that may give people the wrong idea about you. What you eat can also contribute to your complexion problems. Greasy foods etc will make it worse. You can do situps or scrunches to help tighten your stomach. It sounds like your weight is within the normal range but I know a lot of girls feel like they have to be thin today. Watching what you eat and some exercise will help you get to the shape you want to be. There are always going to be people who criticise, you cannot change how they act, only how you react to them. I wish you luck with these things. Please feel free to contact me if you wish. Jazz

Answer 4

I will not tell you that you are beautiful on the inside since you don't want to hear it. but I will tell say that if you feel you are ugly then the way you present yourself probably makes a difference in the way the guys see you. Go and get your hair done, maybe your nails and go and get a hot new outfit (or whatever makes you feel good about yourself) and go strut your stuff!! Quit dogging yourself and make yourself be noticed. Boost your self esteem and the guys will come crawling! Not a promise, but a good start!!

Answer 5

High school is cruel! My suggestion is stop fad dieting it doesn't work. Lose the weight if you want to. do whatever it takes to make you on the outside to make your inside happy. Eventually you Will get to a point where you are happy with yourself and what others say won't bother you. Look at people you would like to look like and take clues from them you will never look exactly but look at their looks over the years not just obsess over one picture. What I would like to hear you would do is come to terms about what goals are obtainable and reach for them. I think you'll be happier with yourself if you can do that.Other people will always talk if it's not one thing it's another,they always find something,don't let them bring you down.

Answer 6

well i feel bad for you
there are alot of ugly people out there
and who knows, maybe one day you will be grown and you will become beautiful. your still young so you might change alot later on. and also, im pretty sure youre not as ugly as you think you are. and try not to wear revealing clothes...