actually i fight / struggle like anything to survive but failed to live... no one help me today.... i m alone and totally frustated and no more wish to continue life.... this is really miserable.... today my position due to my wrong anticipation and luck
2007-04-25 17:24:05 · 27 answers · asked by shuvadip d 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Let me tell you something, everybody have problems,
we and the majority of the world understand that, but the difference is that some people have complex problems than others, so i think that is your problem, but you as a normal and intelligent cannot be frustrated of your life, because we, our self, create or make our life, we are the ones who determine we are going to so, if we commit mistakes, no problem, continue because we are humans, no one have a perfect life, although some persons act like if they are living a perfect life, they in some part of the fantasy they are creating they will fall too, so don't worry , smile and don't look at past, look beyond and remember to fail or to fell frustrated is am step to succeed.
2007-04-25 17:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by vtech2608 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello
Hold on .. Please do not trying killing yourself. No one had a happy life here.Life is a constant struggle and each one of us are doing.
Even you are aware of this. If you are working and that place haunts you then go to another city. It is said that today we do not read spirtual books since we have become materialistic too much. Go to ISKCON TEMPLE. Believe me sit there . There are 2 in Mumbai and each parts of nation here or abroad.
Whenever Iam deppressed or I feel as if Iam burning inside since no one understands me then I visit ISKCON website. I feel good.
Read books on Bhagvadgita As It Is and buy only from ISKCON Temple since the words are correctly mentioned and no writer had given comments on their own thinking. This is not about Hinduism Iam preaching about but Iam talking on the spirtual level.
You contact the people at from the websites mentioned below and there are many works to be done in this world. There are many projects from ISKCON and select them and do the social works. You will come into more new contacts. Mostly due to the negative people around us , our lives are stuck up.
Iam not saying that be a monk or nun. Continue your daily life with work etc.
Today we have forgotten spirtual factor in our life and this is why depression etc attacks us. It is like any no vitamin c or d or e and ones bodys lacks and suffers.
Spiritual books heals us.Be it of any religion. Spiritual books are the healers of the soul. Your life has aim. Just visit these sites sincerly and contact person and visit the temples personally.Look this as your new birth.
Forget past.
2007-04-27 01:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow, I don't see a person about to die coming on the net to discuss it. As far as I know, people with suicidal tendencies tend to stay alone.
But if you are serious , then your coming here to seek help shows you still have a desire to live that makes you ask for help. My advice is, use that desire in you. We all have a survival instinct within us. Realize it and let it overpower your sense of defeat. Remember that life is made up of light and darkness, you must wait for the darkness to pass. There is beauty in life, there are a lot of things you can do with life. Because you have failed once does not mean you will never succeed. As one answerer has already pointed out, you know English, you are computer literate, you have access to the net...you have opportunities. Don't waste them.
And if this was a prank, please don't abuse this forum so.
2007-04-26 01:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ruchira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life, your existence ,your being is so valuable . You may feel lost, hopeless and alone. Your Ideas of what your purpose may seem wrong or somehow "off" ,but you NEED to be in this world. Your life has a very important purpose and meaning. The hard thing about this truth is not knowing What your purpose is or Why it is. A great accomplishment , or great success or wealth or popularity is not necessary to be worthy of happiness or have a wonderful and necessary purpose. This prayer helps me... "Lord make me and instrument of Your Peace. Where there is hatred, let me show love;where there is injury, pardon;where there is doubt,faith ;Where there is despair , hope;Where there is darkness, light ; and Where there is sadness, joy. O Devine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love; For it is in giving we receive, it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and is in dying that we are born into Eternal Light. St. Francis of Assissi (1182-1226) Your success in this life lies in being kind to others, doing at least one kind thing every day for someone, will make your life worthwhile. (especially, if you tell no one what you did) Please , try this , I hope you feel new strength and courage. I believe in you.
2007-04-26 00:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mimzybythesea 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Will you hang on till you finish seeing this msg?
Please answer these simple Qs:
Can you give life for someone? I mean, can you breathe life into a bird, a sparrow, or even a butterfly?
Can you?
If not, then who are you to take life---even if it be your own??
You were created by a Higher Power, God, for a purpose: find out what is your purpose in this world.
Once you get the answer, then you can exercise your choice. To take it, or leave it--that choice will always be there--till you choose!!!
God bless you, my friend.
Hope to see you around soon, on this site.
You will be there for me
today, won't you??
Call on mo: 9350685248. May be we can vibe, my dear friend!
2007-04-26 05:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by thegentle Indian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ending your life will not end the pain. If 'life' can cease to exist than it never existed at all, at least to the one that matters i.e. you. You may think it to be unbearable now, but given time you will gain strength from the experience, perhaps even be grateful for it. We are here to learn, to evolve. The greater the pain the greater the happiness.
2007-04-26 13:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by mick rogers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You idiot. Do you think you are the only one who is suffering into the extremes of the world. You have atleast access to Internet and it seems you are atleast well enough to win your daily bread.
See, there are lot of peoples, who don't have a single full supper per day. Go and see lunatic asylums, refugee camps. People don't know what is their next minute will be like that.
If still you want to die, die for a noble cause, such as serving the nation, or serving humanity.
2007-04-26 05:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by tdrajagopal 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are better off than a lot of other people. You are educated. You know a bit of English. You are computer literate. You have access to computers. Make use of all these facts (and possibly more) to do something worthwhile in your life, instead of thinking of ending it. God has created you for a purpose. It is upto you to find out what it is.
2007-04-26 01:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by Bharat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way as you do. The best piece of advice I've gotten recently is to just try and make it half an hour. Then 1 hour. Then 2 hours. Then a day. Your suicidal thoughts will go away eventually and then you'll be glad you didn't kill yourself.
2007-04-26 00:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen, just sleep on it day after day and dont get impulsive. visit a temple near u in the morning. start meditating for five ten minutes. close your eyes and watch your breath. go out with friends. you may not get a chance to be born again so atleast try turning into monk, a social worker etc instead of thinking of killing yourself. are you married, do you have elderly parents, serve them and humanity if you can.
2007-04-26 13:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋