Don't think I am 'gross' or any of that...I am just young and life is coming at me fast. So girls, what does sex feel like for you the first time? I imagine it's rather painful. Is there like...any pleasure the first time...or pretty much just pain?
If you are just going to answer this question and say "perv!" or something, go to the next question please. I am just curious.
Thanks!
2007-04-25 15:14:09 · 18 answers · asked by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are not a perv- this is a very legit question! I didn't have sex until I was 21 years old. Unfortunately, I was somewhat drunk when it happened - not overly so, but drunkish. I never really thought too much about whether it would be painful or not. It is a bit uncomfortable the first time. It affects some girls more than others. I have read that some girls bleed or cry, but it wasn't too bad for me. Just a bit uncomfortable and painful. I also think that some of our nervousness might also interefe from enjoying it completely. I'd just suggest that you make sure you are truly ready and it is with someone that you love. That, will make the experience more memorable (even if there is some discomfort!) I think my first was sort of a mistake.
2007-04-25 15:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by January 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, for me there was pain and pleasure. It hurt bad at first, but then it eased and wasn't so bad...i hope you are old enough to be wondering these things because I made the mistake of having sex too early...I was only 14 years old and wish that I had had someone to warn me about how early is too early...A young girls body really isn;t ready that soon. When the time is right it is right, but be careful and take precautions. You must protect yourself. if you don;t who will?Take care and if you need to talk to somebody feel free to message and talk with me....
2007-04-25 15:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Beth F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time was a little uncomfortable for me, but after about 10 minutes it wasn't that bad. Its not horrible, but it will leave you wondering what the fuss is all about...
The 2nd time will be much better. Just make sure the person you're with at first really matters to you, it will make it way more comfortable, and maybe you can go for round 2 to se what the fuss really is all about.
2007-04-25 15:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by MsKnowItAll Reborn 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious Answer:
Wait for sex. Find a good guy, get married Then have sex.
Just becaue society, the media, your friends says it's cool does not make it so!
How much sex hurts the first time depends on how thick the hymen is.
2007-04-25 15:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had painless the first time.perhaps I have a doze too much of alcohol?my frens say the alcohol sort of like numb my body so I don feel the pain.
2007-04-25 15:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Shalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time is uncomfortable and can be painful, but it can also be a beautiful thing if it is with someone you love and are very comfortable with. its better if you wait till you know them very well. read that old book by judy bloom called Forever. excellent book, a little outdated but very helpful in that area.
2007-04-25 15:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I dont really remember my first time, it wasnt the best. But after a few times it gets better. I think it is because your nervous the first time and its hard to enjoy it.
2007-04-25 15:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by fancy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hurts. Then, OMG, you can't get enough!
Therefore: Suggest you not start until you're sure to have a steady supply from someone who truly cares about you.
2007-04-25 15:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts, and its better to wait. Because your innocence is something special, if you give it away you can't get it back. When that happens to many girls think they should give it out to any guy who acts like they like them, and they end up getting hurt. Its better to wait till your in a commited relationship. I wish I had.
2007-04-25 15:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Kellie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋