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Are long-term affairs more meaningful? Why not leave your wife if you're willing to risk ending your marriage by having the affair in the first place!

2007-04-25 12:07:51 · 14 answers · asked by Scout 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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I think most people cheat when something is missing.
Most people think it's easier to just cheat instead of leaving their partner...
Usually when they fufill that urge...they realize either that they really love their partner or they don't and need to leave them.

2007-04-26 05:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0 0

I had affairs with my first wife but in my second relationship I never even had the urge to cheat and was totally happy. Its a state of mind when something is missing that you can't define you have an affair to fill the gap. All women are different finding the right one for you is the key. Keeping her when you find her is the solution to a happy life.

2007-04-25 12:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tim C 2 · 1 0

some people feel they CAN'T leave for a number of reasons fill in the blank_____. Some people like the thrill of the forbidden love. The thrill is more importnant then the person they are having the Affair with. It's not just MEN women cheat too. Most married men do love their wifes but still have that urge to run a stray.....wild oats.

2007-04-25 12:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 2 0

Hey alicat just so you know I'm not answering to disappoint you at all... I really don't understand why you said a guy in the know won't answer. A guy that carries on for so long really doesn't care what you think and does not care about the fact that you just don't get it. You want to know a common motivation for a man? Are you new to dating men??? He could have built an emotional attachment... He could just like the sex and OMG it could be both!!! People stay in less than fulfilling marriages and relationships for a myriad of reasons... Some good and of course some not so good. Financial, emotional, children, insecurity... you name it... I bet there's some one using the excuse to stay... Why does there have to be a ticking time bomb? Because it makes sense and justifies your fear and insecurity? Dates, Live in companions, marriages.. Some only last a few months... Others last a lifetime with or without intimate others on the side... Who can say what tomorrow will bring other than sometimes.... Just maybe... The sweetest thing happens.... Some how both persons keep wanting a tomorrow with the other person... day after day... Year after year... Sometimes the other person stops wanting.... No time bomb... Just a fact. We're not wired like you... We don't sit around thinking about everything that could go wrong... We don't think about what you might be doing with other guys when we're not around... We're happy to just be with you when we're with you .... And contrary to popular opinion some of us are inclined to eventually be with only one.... despite our checkered past... It's really not as complicated as you are trying to make it out to be.

2016-04-01 07:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I can barely grant the possibility of a drunken, one hour affair happening even though the person was in love and married. Probably at least one time it's actually that way, for every ten thousand times that excuse is used. But an ongoing affair brands you as immature, selfish, and subhuman(socially). Such a person, if they CAN love, love only themselves. As for why they don't divorce- It's like they are children. They want to have their cake, and eat it too. And like children, they want to "get away" with things. And heck, back in high school, it was "in" to chase girls. So, they stay, and cheat. But lady, it ain't JUST men. Been there done that and got the tee shirt.

2007-04-25 14:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Sorry; don't understand your question at all...

I've been happily married for almost 37 years to a very sexy woman. What's all this concern with affairs?

2007-04-25 14:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Kids, you have gotta stay for the kids. Some wives just don't treat their husbands like husbands. They end up being friends and mommies and not lovers. Some wives think a man won't cheat even though he is not getting sex. Guess what, if you won't...., she will. 50% of the people out there have one and a man will find it if he is not getting it at home. I know, I sound like a .... man...lol

2007-04-25 12:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by RE Broker 1 · 2 0

No you do not love your wife if you have any kind of affair.

Simple as that. Anybody that says otherwise is a cheater.

Next question.

2007-04-25 12:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 0 2

they DO NOT love their wife, or the affair...

2007-04-25 12:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0 1

No. Women are just way too complicated.

2007-04-25 12:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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