My wife and I have recently spilt up. I left because she is having a affair.?

Question

can she move this man into our house even though i am currently paying the morgage.

Answer 1

Well you said you left, that makes a difference.

Answer 2

as you wer legaly married the house and it's contance belong to the bothof you by law even though it is you who are paying for the morgage So i would suggest that you put the matter in the hands of a solicitor as soon as you possibly can before she screws you good and proper i would also sue for a divorce for adultry naming her lover as the correspondent as this will help when the judge comes to divide up the assets between you both as she has moved her lover into the mattremonail home even before you are legaly seperated by the law and the judge will take a dim view of this the only way that she may come out in top is that if you and your wife had any children from the marrage BUT if you started paying for the house before your marrage she has no claim on it at all

Answer 3

you wont have to keep paying the morgage if her new man is in full timework ,unless you have children under 16 or 18 in full time education but even then it will only be a percent or just maintance,but if there are no children involved she buys you out or you sell the house an split the money!he has took your wife on he has to take the bills on!go get a solicitor he or she will tell you everythin you need to no as im very sure you have a lot more questions!

Answer 4

It's really stinky that your wife is disrespecting you in this fashion. Speak to a lawyer about whether or not you will still be responsible for the morgage even though you won't be living there. If you are, there's nothing you can really do about the other guy. If don't have to pay and she does, call it karma.

Answer 5

Get your *** back in your house! Wait til she is gone, to avoid a fight, go in, lock the doors and then change the locks pretty shnelmacker. Possesion is nine tenths of the law,
Legally she cannot stop you from entering the marital home, like you can't stop her, but don't what ever you do, leave the house! And if she comes back with the new s**t head, restrain yourself from cutting his c**k off and call the police. PS, now is the time to get evidence of the affair, and divorce her cold *** ASAP on the terms of an affair.

Answer 6

Every state is different, but with my split, because my now ex "abanded" the property, it left me to do as I felt fit. I did not have someone move in with me, but remember if she does this and you do end up going thru a divorce you can use that against her in court.

Also I have seen it happen several times that even when a couple does get a divorce, until the property sells (if that is what the judge decides needs to happen) each party will continue to make equal payments until it is sold. Even if this is 3 years down the road that it sells.

Answer 7

if you left on your own accord she can do what she wants,
if you have children the courts will not let you sell the property until the youngest kid is 16,
however if she moves a lover in you will be quids in if your case goes to court for settlement as you could prove adultery easily..
the property would be valued now and once it can be sold she would only get half of the value at todays prices,, less any major repair costs that she helped pay for..

good luck bud

Answer 8

If you live in a community property state, or her name is on the mortgage, then yes...she could move him in.

If her name is NOT on the mortgage and it's not a community property state, she can't (if she does, you're entitled to take legal action to have him booted out)

Do NOT take matters into your own hands and engage in a physical altercation with the guy and/or her, no matter how tempting. You could end up in trouble instead of either of them. And DO NOT stop making the mortgage payments if your name is on the loan either, whatever you do! (Unless you're prepared to ruin your credit over this, that is.)

If she's moving, or has moved, her lover in, you need to talk to your lawyer ASAP. (If you don't have one, find one. Many offer the 1st consult free.)

Answer 9

Unfortunately yes. She can. It's still HER house too. I suggest you get an attourney ASAP and list the house. If she's going to be living there she either needs to buy you out or agree to sell and split the proceeds. The sooner the better. Clearly this marriage is no hope for repair. Sorry to hear this. Good luck to you.

Answer 10

Hi look it sounds like you've moved out (i remember your last question) and your not thinking straight at the moment, if your in the UK and he is going to move in and it looks like he is going to tell them they can rent the house from you for the going rate.
this will give some rights I.E. you need a credit check done also a criminal record check mostly because your leaving your child in the house, it will also help you fight your case when and if you have to go to court, it may also show your wife things about him he wouldn't want her to know about.
Right this the way she will play this in court you moved out on your own free will that means you deserted your child and home it will not mater to the courts why you did but you did, really you've got to get back in the house for one if you have a home and a job you will stand a better chance of keeping your child and she will be the one paying child support and not you and your going to know all about that when the CSA get their teeth in to you.
get yourself down to the CAB and get back in doors.
If you need support from some one who has been through what your going through and not just comments email me
Tony

Answer 11

Unfortunately mate you left the family home, there is pretty much nothing you can do. Whatever you do, DO NOT stop paying the mortgage if it is in you name you are still legally responsible under the terms of the mortgage.

Get a good lawyer ASAP!