2007-04-25 10:36:48 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is written in the Hebrew Talmud, the book
where all of the sayings and preaching of
Rabbis are conserved over time.
It says: "Be very careful if you make a woman
cry, because God counts her tears. The woman
came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be
walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but
from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be
protected, and next to the heart to be loved."
2007-04-25 10:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Obviously if someone is considering going back into a relationship that was violent they managed to get out alive. If they return to that relationship they may not be so lucky. They could either be seriously hurt or killed. My advice would be to stay clear of going back into a relationship like that.
2007-04-25 13:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see this as advisable but then it takes all sorts of factors to make a decision. If the partner is undergoing treatment for the violent behaviour and if a genuine love is there of any kind. I do know of one case that worked.....the violence so far and that is 15 years later has not re visited.
2007-04-25 21:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY in hell should someone return to a violent relationship unless counseling and anger management has taken place and then start off slow like dating and go from there.
2007-04-25 11:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by swindlebobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. You should never return to a violent relationship. Men don't very often change, even if they say they are going to.
2007-04-25 11:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by kb1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if they're totally insane & like the idea of being beaten within an inch of their life or worse. Therapy is in order for someone who is even considering returning to such a relationship.
2007-04-25 10:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Why would you even have to ask that question? If you managed to get out, count your blessings; do you not see the news? Do you not realise how many people never get out because the violent partners eventually killl them? If you have children, this thought should especially never cross your mind. You were strong enough to get out, now keep that strength and stay out.
2007-04-25 10:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In their right mind? Uh.......no. If you're smart enough to get out, you're smart enough to insist on counselling and marital overhaul before even CONSIDERING such a silly move. If he doesn't wake up when you're out of the home, he's not going to wake up. You'll end up in square 1 again with nothing gained by leaving.
2007-04-25 10:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you be a fruit cake ,if you wanted to return to a violent relationship, protection order are a good to to have in those cases,,
2007-04-25 10:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
even if the two of you had counseling, caution should be taken. Take your time rejoining. I always said that there are 3 reasons for staying with or going back to abuse: 1)sex,
2)money,
3)drugs;ie:addictions
good luck
2007-04-25 10:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by islandboosky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋