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2007-04-25 09:03:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want someone that doesn't want you? I'm not trying to be mean, just realistic. I'd rather have a guy who wants me because he loves me and wants to be than a guy who is only with me because it makes me happy. If a guy isn't happy with you, you shouldn't take it personal, you should keep it moving. You don't want your guy to pity you. I sometimes wonder where did most girls pride go? I have a lot of pride and if a guy told me and treated me like he doesn't want to be with me, then I would let it be and go my own way. Realistically, you look stupid if you are chasing him, calling him after he told you to stop or after you broke up.
You want him back??? You need to leave him alone. Let him see for himself that you are not desperate and that you are not going to die without him. Trust me.....when he doesn't get that attention from you, he will try to talk to you and be with you again. As for you wanting him when that happens, who knows. Karma is crazy and chances are you won't want him. You also have to maintain yourself....look good....make sure if you might bump into him that you look great. To get him a little jealous. Also....very important.....Always act happy around him, even if your not. Kindness kills girl...so when you speak to him act joyful, like nothing in this world could bother you and watch how the tables will turn. Last...there is plenty of guys out there and trust me, there is always someone else better out there, you just have to find him.
2007-04-25 09:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be cool and watch this guy maybe he is going through some problems thats why he might be always silent.Make a promise to him telling him that you will help solve somethings out if he needs ur help.Actually he is depressed.Sorry if i may say something my wife is armenian i dont know if its you or not.Exactly what u asked as question is what we are going throughin our relationship.I never want to show that i love her so much because she takes me to be a fool whenever i show her my love,she takes things for granted.She likes to fork every man she sees and later she will come back and tell me that she loves me.What sort of love is that? I dont want.I am thinking that her family is really known for forking every man they see.She has gotten married to two different men before me.The pain that made me write all these things now is as i am writing now she is with another man forking never minding of coming home.If u r like that pls change and seek for what u want.May God help you.....
2007-04-25 16:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has this been going on? Do you suspect he may be depressed? Get him to a doctor. If he's not depressed, is he under lots of stress? Do you talk too much at him and, thus, he gets moody? If he is always silent, pick a time when he seems to be relaxed and not watching TV or doing taxes or anything important and ask him what has changed in your marriage as far as he is concerned. Then LISTEN to his answer. Tell him you want to work on your marriage to make it happier like it used to be. Ask him to work with you. See what he says.
2007-04-25 16:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found in my circle of friends that are having similar issues that their men all fail to emote don't express well and are silent and the women feel like their emotional needs are not met.
I am sure he cares! Have you dicussed your needs with him, if not try that for starters.
2007-04-25 16:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by cutelikeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U CAN'T BRING HIM BACK. HE HAS TO BRING HISELF BACK. I KNOW HOW MUCH THAT HURTS U ,SO I THINK IT'S TIME FOR U TO MOVE ON FOR YOUR OWN HAPPINESS. I JUST LET MY BF GO ON SAT. FOR THE SAME REASON. MY HEART IS BREAKING BUT IF IT'S MEANT TO BE HE WILL COME BACK. IF HE DOESN'T THEN I KEEP GOING FORWARD WITH MY LIFE. I'VE LEARNED WHEN IT'S OVER IT'S OVER & NOTHING IN THIS WORLD CAN CHANGE IT.
HUGS TO U!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-25 16:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by texasstar1974 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find one that will care for you like u care for him.u can not force someone to love u or care for u back...it just has to come naturally..
2007-04-25 16:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him? Maybe something is bothering him and he needs to talk or think it over.
2007-04-25 16:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with a guy like this?
2007-04-25 16:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋