and they have been together for like maybe 3 months and hardly know one another????
2007-04-25 07:52:24 · 35 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just remember, your husband/wife should ALWAYS be #1 in your life besides your kids and they should also be your best friend who knows alot about you and what you are personally like.
They have to be your best friend no matter what!
2007-04-25 08:00:02 · update #1
I would not do it. I guess it has worked for some people, but I am not in favor of it, and I would never do it myself.
2007-04-25 07:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Tony M 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
From my experience, that is NOT always a good idea, although, it really depends on the people, how they met, etc.. I met my husband on a blind date (set up by mutual friends), we fell in love instantly, we got engaged within the first 3-4 months, and we've been together everyday since for 6 yrs! It sounds like you are really concerned for your friend, which makes you a good one (friend). You should talk to your friend, and ask him/her if this is what they want, and express your concern in a nice way, if you want to keep this friend, if you can, be supportive, but keep an eye on them. My friends did that for me, and I appreciated it greatly, it's comforting to know that your friends are looking out for your best intrest. Good Luck, I hope it works out for you.
2007-04-25 08:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by korny_freak_27 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My grandparents got married only 4 months after meeting each other and they stayed together their entire life. Marriage is a gamble no matter how long you've known them before hand. If they are both people who are willing to make the marriage work then I don't think it matters that they've only been together 3 months.
2007-04-25 07:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
The Sex must be great! I was married to my wife after dating for 2 months, we've been together for 8 years now and have 2 wonderful kids. Sometimes you don't need to know someone forever to know they're the one for you.
2007-04-25 07:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by jrandbrenda 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hey it's been 3 1/2 dude!
2007-04-25 07:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one but them knows the whole situation. I used to think it'd be way too soon, but since my last relationship started, I have changed my tune a bit. I met my boyfriend in October and due to circumstances, we stopped talking in November. We started talking again in March and have been inseparable since then. Now, people think we have moved too fast, but there is a bond/connection there that neither of us has felt before, despite being married. We have discussed marriage and children and everything else, we live together. I think unless you know everything about it, it isn't right to pass judgement.
2007-04-25 08:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by JanksGirl 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well personaly i think it would be kinda of dumb because you dont no a thing about the person your with...because engagement and being married is one of the most serious steps in your life so you should choose your spouse well and not act like a 6th grader and say you love them after 2 nights and propose...but love at first site is also somthing that happens alot..but becareful is all i can say...
2007-04-25 07:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Josh W 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Pretty stupid! And I speak for myself. I met a guy and married him within 3 months and it only lasted 7 days. I ended up kicking him out for something he did. I really should have taken like 3 "years" to know the guy, 3 months just isn't long enough to get to know someone.
2007-04-25 07:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by whtecloud 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Me and my now husband got engaged after 10 weeks, We have now been together for 17years and marred for 10 years, So yes it can work for some..
2007-04-25 07:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it! Husband and I moved intogether the day we met, married 3 months later, and have been married for almost 5 years now and we still say I Love U and he still opens doors. He's still the most attractive person I've ever met! So take that all you narrow minded people that think it'll never work!!
2007-04-25 07:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by healthykidnow 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
3 months is not time enough to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. That's way too soon to be thinking about marriage.
2007-04-25 07:56:08 · answer #11 · answered by First Lady 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋