usually men are the ones bugging about sex I feel like I deserve it more than every two months. I dont know whats wrong with him. he says he just dont think about it i am not ugly I take care of myself my kids and im a damn good woman what more could a man need??? Please help
2007-04-25 07:13:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is 32 years old, overweight with a clean bill of health per his physical
2007-04-25 07:33:08 · update #1
Well there can be many reasons why hun. Like maybe he's having medical issues down there and he is too embarrassed to admit it. Also he may be feeling guilty about something he's hiding from you. Men are not great at communication. Is he overwhelmed with work or stressed out to the max? This greatly affects men. Hopefully its just that he's stressed or tired and not that he's having an affair. The best way to find out is talk to him. Talk when he's in a good mood and at a time when he's relaxed. Explain how this makes you feel. If he's hiding something you should be able to pick-up on it right away. Remember it could be something innocent but embarrassing to him. Keep an open mind, and don't jump to conclusions. Hope it turns out ok hun.
2007-04-25 07:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by akafinewine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is cool!!!! I need sex everyday but I understand things happen so if my guy ever decides that he wants to hold out I let him know two weeks is my limit for no sex so you make the decision either you give me some or I will cheat. Your guy might be interested in someone else especially if he doesn't have sex with except for every other month. That has to suck. He has everything he needs and that may be the problem one day do not be home when he gets home from work make him cook his own dinner and do things for himself. Then he will see that he needs you and if he is unhappy about that let him go on his way sounds like he is already preoccupied
2007-04-25 14:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In your details you wrote he's over weight! Being over weight has a huge impact on sex with both men and women, more with a man. I'd put him on a diet and see what happens. I'd also go to the adult toy store and buy something you can enjoy alone. Maybe if you let him watch for a moment that might bring a whole new level to sex and get him back into gear... Good luck!
2007-04-25 14:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Flying w/ scissors 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is depressed or has a physical problem. Does he have medications, such as for high blood pressure, that might be causing him to feel less interested? Of course, it is also possible he is cheating and he feels guilty about it.
Don't accuse him. Just ask him gently, let him explain his side of the story. Example:
I really love you, I feel like I miss being intimate with you. Is there something bothering you?
If he can't identify a reason, you should have him talk to his doctor, and then go to counselling. If you can't afford counselling, many churches offer free marriage counselling.
2007-04-25 14:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by greengo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old is he 1st before anyone judges that hes cheating some men have a problem with there member when i hit 30 this happend to me then one day 1yr later i got over it crazy idea ask if want to bring anthor girl in to spice it up if hes cheating he may jump at the chance if all of a sudden hes ready to go there maybe something to investagate dont act on this just sugest it to see his answer
2007-04-25 14:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by tigger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like hes going thru a life change, women aren't the only ones who have them, But you should tell him you don't want to think about you would like to do it. Maybe a chagne of pace might help, a night a a hotel, with lots of romance, good luck.
2007-04-25 14:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's bored. He prefers porn, masturbation, the other woman to you--or he has a medical problem. Try to add some spice. Buy some negligees and bring another person into your bed.
2007-04-25 14:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he could have stamina issues
cheating is a possibility
he could not like having sex with a woman
there are numerous reasons
it has nothing to do with who you are...any man would be privledged to have a good woman
the whole not thinking about it is bull...it is a proven fact that men think about something sexual every minute that they are awake.
2007-04-25 14:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by Julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes probably getting it somewhere else.
2007-04-25 14:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's getting it somewhere else. sorry.
2007-04-25 14:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋