Accept totally different behavior from their partner to feel excepted, wanted, and appreciated....
The man normally wants to be shown those things by his partners willingness to give any sort of physical satifaction(anything sexual pretty much)
The woman wants time attention sweet words and actions pretty much anything but sexual things....
Now in return boths sides get what they want by doing what the other wants...just wondering if this is just normal healthy human behavior just how how the two sexes work out i guess...
Wanna know why were so different in these ways??
2007-04-25 07:04:20 · 6 answers · asked by Big Daddy 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Because men view sex as a simple pleasure to be shared with another, assured of closeness by the ultimate in touching and physical closeness... but for women, it's much more biologically risky and expensive, so while it's a pleasure, it's not a simple one. Women want to be assured they're valued enough that the man would stick around and help her if, er, the risk was made real.
I think this is perfectly healthy. We each just need to recognize what the other wants and care enough to give it. A loving couple would not withhold what the other desires in an attempt to gain power in the relationship. A healthy relationship means we are happy when our partners are happy.
2007-04-25 07:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by KC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is because they are just made to complement each other. Women tend to create an emotional bond when they have sex with a man. Men, on the other hand, can have sex with no feeling of attachment at all. To them it is just a physical act. That's why men "have sex" and women "make love". I also think that is why it is easier for men to be unfaithful with very little guilt or remorse until or unless they get caught.
2007-04-25 14:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by TexasDolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are stereotypically like that, and the same goes for women. I get annoyed when my boyfriend tried to cuddle me and talk sweet nothings in my ear sometimes, and sometimes hes not in the mood to have sex. If you love someone, you respect what the other wants and to a certain point cater to their needs.
2007-04-25 14:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by LifeIsPeachy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with genetics and also the way that we are raised.
The genetic part is like pre-programed into us to be a certain way. Like how we are all hard wired if you will. That's some thing that can not be changed.
And the way we are raised, how we are taught by our parents for examples. We are taught certain things and even told certain things by our parents as we grow up. And we may even learn by watching others too.
Hey its the best I can come up with.
2007-04-25 14:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not the way it always is,I am more of the touchy feely and My Husband is not .He is not the sweet talker either.We all are made up differently. The Truth is God made us so we will have to wait and ask him,The Human spices is very confusing.
2007-04-25 14:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody knows why this is. All we know is that relationships take a lot of time and effort, but in the end they're worth it.
2007-04-25 14:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Freaked out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋