My wife think that her breast are to saggy. She is 26 years. She weights 115. She is 5'1" height. I don't want her to breast lift up..Am I right by telling her not to do it or I might be to selfish..She says that is only for self esteem.
2007-04-25 06:48:58 · 24 answers · asked by Bucanero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
At 26 she's worried about saggy breasts?
Wait til she's 40!
Ask her to wait a few more years and if she really wants the surgery then do it.
She does need to realize that plastic surgery won't make your self esteem any better. She'll just continue to pick out flaws in herself that she thinks need fixing. Self esteem comes from inside.
2007-04-25 06:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by nailgal2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's great to see that you don't think your wife needs to get a breast lift and its beautiful to hear the love you have for her but, on the other hand you should support your wife on how she feels ...She needs to feel good about herself and apparently she doesn't. I think you should express to her how you feel and make her understand that you love her just the way she is but, if shes not happy with herself then you will be there for her reguardless of anything......best of luck***
2007-04-25 07:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should support your wife. Though you may not think she needs it done, women are hypercritical of their bodies. If she thinks she needs it then she should get it. Though a doctor won't give her a lift if she doesn't need one. The only thing it'll do is make her perkier and there's nothing wrong with that. Think about it this way. If your wife has self esteem issues because she think her breasts aren't as nice as they could be, think about how much better she'll feel about herself after. She'll feel better about you touching her. Sex will be better!
2007-04-28 10:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Trish C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can TELL her not to do it, but it all boils down to it is her body her choice if she wants a breast lift or not.
She could always try wearing a better supporting bra before deciding on breast lift surgery.
2007-04-27 00:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the money to get it done, and it won't cause financial trouble at all, then what's wrong with it? Some women have things like that done simply for a self-esteem boost. And her higher self-esteem can even improve your relationship, on a physical level.
2007-04-25 07:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*Hey TRUST me....please just agree to let her do it.*
-I know what she is talking about....the whole self-esteem bit, it's true. If that is what she truly wants to do, and she feels like it will make her feel better about herself...then support her.
.Once she has it done, she will be a very very happy girl...I know it's silly but (this is off topic) I want to get a boob job...and no joke, if I had bigger boobs, I would be SOOO happy about my appearance..and my self-esteem would shoot through the roof.
**So yes, let her get it done :) She will love you forever if you support her decision and she will be happy.
2007-04-25 06:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breast lift surgery is very safe nowadays. My cousin got her breast reduction, tummy tuck and facelift surgery in India by the company called Forerunners Healthcare .The Price for the surgery she paid in India was very less. She paid 30% of the cost she was quoted in America.
Forerunners Healthcare is very famous in India. They arrange cosmetic and plastic surgery for foreigners in India. I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories. They arrange financing for USA, Canadian, UK and other international patients who plan to have surgery abroad for low price, as the breast reduction, tummy tuck, facelift and other cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance. They also have photos pasted of their International patients. You can checkout their website. There are huge cost savings. As a doctor I personally believe that surgery can be easily handled in India, as the quality of healthcare available In India is simply best in the world. The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star.
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Hope this helps.
2007-04-25 18:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are the only one she should have to please, if yo are married to her and you think she is sexy that should be enough. every girl wants breast implants for the same reason, more attention. self esteem is just a fluffy word for it. she wants those things for vanity purposes as well as to increase attention given to her. maybe you need to pay more attention to your wife so she loses her craving for alternative ways to get it. take her on a lavish date and spoil her. and make sure she knows that you love her the way she is, the way god made her.
2007-04-25 06:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the ****** doesn't need to worry
how his wife feels or looks
she is to work around the house
and take care of his kid
he can always have affair with
17 year old, like Christy Brinkley husband
so he doesn't really need
to give a ****!
2007-04-25 07:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by AnnaP. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it makes her feel better. She might be happier.
Make sure she is doing it for the right reasons, she doesn't have any unrealistic hang-ups.
2007-04-25 06:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋