i am 20. i have always had lesbian fantacies but i am in a stable relationship with i man that i truely love&am more than happy.last month i visited my best friend of 5 years. we went on a night out and she kissed me.i was really shocked but didnt stop her from doing it. the next day she apologised and we laughed.then last weekend i went to visit her and whilst we were out she asked me to follow her to some where quiet,when i asked why she said because she wanted to snog me. although the whole situation felt unreal i couldnt stop myself from going along with it. we ended up kissing passionatly all night.it even went as far as her taking my hand and placing it on her breast.the next day she started laughing so i did too.im really confused&i dont know what to do now,because it is always what i dreamt of i cant get it out of my head but i dont want to tell her that incase she doesnt feel the same way or incase she fancies me because i dont fancy her.im really not sure what i feel any more
2007-04-25 06:08:11 · 9 answers · asked by hayden1218 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you're going to sleep together just to appease her curiosity
2007-04-25 06:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The weird thing is that you don't think that you are bisexual or lesbian until you actual experience it. I know exactly what you are talking about. I have a best friend that things happend the same way. You want more, but is it for pleasure or curiosity? That is what you have to ask yourself. Either way, do what you want to do, you only live once in life, and if you don't do it now, you may never get the chance to do it again.
2007-04-25 13:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by amw121899 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds exciting. No need to try to sort all this out or worry. Just let nature take its course and have fun. You'll eventually realize what works for you...maybe a bit of everything. Whatever it is, it doesn't make you a good or bad person. Enjoy the gifts life has to offer.
2007-04-25 13:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by seattlego 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember Oliver.
2007-04-25 13:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by beavis b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously dont love your boyfriend to do that to him chose or everyone will get hurt and you'll end up sad and alone.
2007-04-25 13:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
If it feels good, and you're not hurting anyone, do it. Words to live by.
2007-04-25 13:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Voight-Kampff 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
if you are enjoying it, then go for it, you won,t know if you dont try. xx
2007-04-29 02:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by JOJO 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cut the action off completely and tell your BF what you have done and take responsibility for your actions..
2007-04-25 13:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by eclipse555 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
your not a very good friend are you?
2007-04-25 13:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋