Top or bottom, passive or in control, boring missionary or exciting positions, women never seem to tell you what they want, WHY?
2007-04-25 02:23:23 · 13 answers · asked by IAN B 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
That answer will vary depending on the woman in question...some like to be in control, some don't, some like to sometimes and other times not...some like certain positions and not others...it's all about personal preference.
Actually, many women DO express to our lovers what we want (in and out of the bedroom) but some find it hard to overcome the history of doing what they were told, instead of feeling free to express their own desires.
I won't hesitate to let someone know if what they're doing is or isn't working for me. ☺
2007-04-25 06:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ALLLL depends on the person. Missionary and ''exciting positions'' as u say are SOOO tiring sometimes and you spend so much time thinking of whether your partner is enjoying it that u dont really get anything from it at times. So in that case it may be passive. The best way to find out is to ask the person you're with though. Every girl is different i guess and even then we may not know ourselves very well either..........this isnt a very good answer.. i can see where you're confused lol.
2007-04-25 09:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Vedrana I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being submissive.. I like being told what to do and how. Im a chameleon in the bedroom .. ive been told im very seductive and i can change to fit the mood.. but i have no qualms about telling my partner what i want.. it all depends on the mood and situation
2007-04-25 10:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by pinkcandiez871 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women love a toned down form of rape. That is basically what sex in ancient times was like before societies formed. Must be something primordial. The female attracted the man took. The more women the man raped the more likely it was that some of his offsprings were going to survive. Of course with our big man brains we improved on what nature gave us and you got the holy catholic church. Not every woman is the same though just like some women loath skirts and love bodybuilding.
2007-04-25 09:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The position doesn't matter to me as much as he's in control. I can be on top and he can still be in control. He can pretend to let me be in control, but he's still in control. That's what I prefer.
2007-04-25 09:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
me and my gf communicate very well in the bedroom and take turns being in control.
can't wait to get home.
2007-04-25 09:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't understand women.
They want you to be in control (obviously excluding the lesbian/politically correct/feminist types)
Be in charge, give them a slap, they love it.
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2007-04-25 09:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
You're with the wrong women!
2007-04-25 09:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by jet-set 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Top, a bit of both, and exciting. YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO READ OUR MINDS. What else.
2007-04-25 09:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Honey 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Because they are to busy trying to control everything else that goes on in your life...............
2007-04-25 09:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋