I just can't believe that I have fallin in love with a married man, he says he loves me to, he told me right from the very first time we talked that he is married,
he has also told me that, they just don't communicate anymore, they don't notice each other anymore, She won't go out anywhere with him unless it's on her terms.
All this wasn't since me, it has been going on for ages,
He says he still loves her thou. help I can't believe I have fallin for him so deeply it's just crazy.
2007-04-24 21:40:15 · 24 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cut your Internet connection for a while and start exploring better things around you. If he doesn't have perseverance to better his own life he can't promise you more than what he has right now. Just throw him out of your mind and find yourself a better person.
2007-04-24 21:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Prem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you would still pursue any type of relationship with a man after he tells you hes married shows what kind of person you are. Also, the fact that you believe everything is so "unhappy" at home shows how naive you are. Im sure they still have sex everynight, and hes going to tell you that things are so messed up b/c if he told you he was happy where would that get him?
You're not in love with him, you're in love with what you think he is...you don't even know if hes really a man, or really not a crazy killer.
Internet romance = DUMB
2007-04-25 04:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by ArmyWife0412 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Princess in your message , i notice that you are useing the words HE SAYS, he loves you , , he says he is married , he has told you that his wife does not communicate anymore , and they do not notice each other anymore So where do you stand in all this , QUESTION TO ASK YOU ? You say you have only meet on line does this mean you have never seen each other face to face ? or spoken to him on the phone or net, if he has done none of these things , then how do you possiable know if he is giveing you a load of cockwallop .he says he is married , , question? is she and his wife sleeping together , you do not mention that . has he told you where he lives , if not why not , is he trying to keep something hiden from you . you mention that you yourself have fallen for this man so deeply , , yet he still loves his wife , and he loves you , to and you have falen for athis man deeply in what way deeply , to me he is getting the better of the two worlds , he has a wife who he loves , and and then he falls for you and you fall deeply in love with him , ask yourself , Princess does this all add up , to a truely real answer..???
2007-04-25 05:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tranquilty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the story always heard by "the other woman".
All I can promise you is that he will never leave her (he is telling you this when he says he still loves her), you really don't know him if you have only met on line, and that you are wasting valuable time when there are plenty of worth while single men out there to choose from.
Please, save yourself the heartbreak - go now.
And if you want to see if he passes the first test, try to get him to meet you. It's possible he won't even got that far and you are just a pretty fantasy in his head.
2007-04-25 04:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ande 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nobody said love was ever going to make sense, my dear. Just keep in mind that this man has taken to his computer to find a little warmth and comfort in this life; which means he has some excess baggage he totes around with him. My advice would be to take things slow. Get to know each other in person, if possible. He could be a late bloomer or another Ted Bundy. Don't dive into anything you can't later swim out of.
2007-04-25 04:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by revolvur2000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"he has also told me that, they just don't communicate anymore, they don't notice each other anymore, She won't go out anywhere with him unless it's on her terms.
All this wasn't since me, it has been going on for ages," And you're just gullible enough to believe that crap aren't you? You might want to look up the meaning of gullible in the dictionary...your photo is probably next to the word.
2007-04-25 04:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get a grip he still oves his wife and that means ur the one is guna be left out on the cold its time you woke up wonder how many other people hes telling online he loves u need to go out an find a man of ur own an not some1 elses cause ur ther one is guna always come second best if not 3rd 4th or 5th
2007-04-25 05:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by liberty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What part of he's married, didn't you get? What part of he still loves her, doesn't sink in?
You need to run quickly and totally away from this man. It will bring you nothing but heartache. You can't marry him. He's already married. He obviously isn't divorcing her, or there would be papers filed.
I know you love him, but there is no point in doing this to yourself. Go find someone who is available. This man isn't.
2007-04-25 04:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kaia 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing good arises out from a married man who actually admits that he loves his wife and has you at the same time, you feel good but you will feel bad when you will the next one as his ex.
2007-04-25 04:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves her? He loves you? Do you really think he is going to leave her? No he is not.
Stop falling for him while you still can. If you stay with him he will hurt you (in an emotional way). Not on purpose, but... If he is cheating on his wife and still "loves" her, how can you be sure that he won't cheat on you some day?
2007-04-25 04:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by E.T.O. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋