Can a girl say her past love to his husband after marriage? comment!?

Answer 1

I always suggest any past love affair should be disclosed to the opposite spouse by both the person not after but before marriage itself so that if any objection is there it should be before the marriage not after. It has been seen that many people ask question regarding disclosure of past love affair of any of the party to the marriage can be taken as a ground for getting the marriage dissolved by annulment on the ground of fraud committed by the party. The courts in India have always taken this reason not fit ground of fraud for declaring the marriage null & void by way of decree of annulment. But such disclosure after marriage can bring about indifferences between the parties which may result in breaking of the matrimonial home either by way of desertion or cruelty. If the parties in a marriage give no importance to the past history of their spouse then it is very good sign for their prosperity & one can lead a normal matrimonial life forgetting his or her past. It all depends on the person whom you are disclosing your past if he or she is sensible he or she will just tell you to forget it for ever. So know your spouse fully first then make any disclosure.

Answer 2

If you are not married yet it is better to communicate in advance or before he comes to know about it from any body else. If for any reason you can't do it before, and after marriage you have developed some sort of understanding with your partner then tell him while reassuring him that you have overcome the past, how much you love your husband and how important is he in your life. Get rid of this feeling as early as possible.

Answer 3

What for???
Do you think that "confessing" your love you felt for another man in the past will make your marriage happier?
Would you like to hear stories about ex girl friends and lovers from your husband?? I guess not... but I am sure you would accept it... BUT unfortunately we don´t live in a perfect world and also the government proclaims equality between men and women, in real life things turn out to be different.
Men are more jealous and I am sure your husband could dislike the idea to be married to a woman who had a lover before and he will feel insecure because you didn´t tell him before getting married...
So I ask you again: What would it be good for???
For NOTHING, maybe your husband turns out jealous and loose confidence in you and tries to control all your steps, because he thinks you will meet with your past lover or any other guy...
Keep your mouth shut and keep the love you have felt for somebody and the moments you shared with him in the past inside your heart & memories. Nobody can steal your memories and if you are clever you keep them to yourself...

Answer 4

It depends upon the husband & if it makes u feel more relaxed then u shd.

I think a good husband doesnt need to know abt ur past. Its like ur present and future shd be him. U shd have true relationship.
Tell Him only if u think u wl get in trouble if u dont and its not letting u sleep . Cases in which u need help from him etc

A guy like me will listen but will feel a little hurt after hearing your relationship.
There are things which are better kept unsaid.

Rest is upto U ofcourse
Take care
bbye

Answer 5

surely sister u can share this with ur husband but not soon after the marriage. take some time. when u both will spend some time with eachother u will have a better understanding of ur relationship. in due course u both will also start trusting eachother. so then u can share ur past with him. he will understand u better as now he trusts u. trust is a very important component in every relationship. if he does not trust u then this thing about ur past might create problems. so give some time to ur relationship & then see what u can do. bye & take care.i wish u a happy married life..

Answer 6

Well, i suggest u be lil carefull in this issue, it looks like you have not understood ur husband properly,unless otherwise you don't understnad him completely , do not ever tell him.
One important thing is that , these kind of revealing ur previous affairs might bring disturbanur married life nad that might lead to a divorce. If u think that u can handle the situation of divorce etc, they u can be bold enough to tell him right now. And if you think u just don't want to loose him at anyways, just keep ur mouth shut and let things go normaly, Time will come to tell all these things.
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Answer 7

There are hundreds of topics to talk about. Why should you choose to disclose something to your husband that is likely to create tension, rift, jealousy and mistrust. You married him to lead a happy life rather than invite troubles and make it miserable. Do you think he will feel happy and proud of that you have had four lovers and you slept with them!
I think it is utter nonsense to dwell on such topics with your husband. Even if you have loved guys, try your level best to forget them and live in the present rather than exhume the past. Even if he ever comes to know about your affairs, tell him point blank that past is dead and that you live in the present and love him with all your heart. At the same time do not nudge him on his affairs either.

Answer 8

Practically saying NO! a big NO! See its not ditching someone but its not playing with someone's emotions who loves you. Humans by birth are possessive creature if you tell your husband about your past love then he may feel insecured and jealous and that may inturn reduce his love for you and increase an iota of doubt towards you. Just be faithful with him for your rest of life and that is it. Take care

Answer 9

if I got ur question right that you wanna discuss your past love life to someone such as our husband then forget it speak toan counsellor your mummy or someone else, because of teh reasons
1) it may result in giving your husband an insecutiy when your around other men
2) he may be turned off by our exes
3) he may know them

your life you want to rattlehis cord then do so

Answer 10

Never advisable to be told anybody. Past is as dead as history. Look for future. Wise people never look back. That was actually not love at all. A real love never fails in God created world.