Like 40 year olds try hitting me up all the time (I'm 19) and c'est tres disguisting! does any other young gay guys have that problem? I mean do they really think they stand a chance?
2007-04-24 19:41:25 · 16 answers · asked by Kent R 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You have a whole lot of growing up to do yet so don't judge those 40 year old guys to harshly. You'll be there soon enough. Simply take it as a complement and have a good conversation with one sometime. Put it right up front you are not interested in sex. They are just trying to prove to themselves that they still have what it takes. That you spend time talking to one of those old guys you may find one that is just intersting enough to be a good friend. The mind never dies when it comes to sex but the body does age and there is nothing sadder than a 19 year old mind in a 40+ year old body. Cross generational friendships are very valuable and will provide you with personal growth (no pun intended) of your mind and outlook on life. Get to know some of these old guys. I am sure you will find them interesting, funny and maybe a romp in the sack will be surprising. Oh and please use protection Condoms when ever you have sex. You are in the highest risk group for getting HIV and many other SID's. Be safe. Stay Alive.
2007-04-24 19:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by .*. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For every guy out there like you who is disgusted by older men hitting on them, there's a 19 year-old guy out there just hoping beyond hope that a handsome older guy will show some interest . . . so maybe you should consider that before you go around yelling about what's 'disgusting'.
Politely decline and take it as a compliment, because that's what it is.
2007-04-24 21:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in my 40s, I could not care less about 19 years old guys.
2007-04-24 19:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kedar 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For a 19 year-old you sound quite immature. You can't spell, have poor grammar and use French out of context. Perhaps the older dudes confuse you for a cheap, one night stand.
2007-04-24 20:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
So if Richard Gere hit on you... you would turn him down....
Sorry I'm not so shallow to let age stop me from getting to know a descent guy. If the guy has something going on and can take care of himself he has a chance getting with me.
2007-04-24 20:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Advocate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in my 40's, and 19 year olds don't interest me. Too immature.
2007-04-24 22:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
BOTH DISGUISTING.40 year olds hitting on 19 year olds.Men of any age doing the pickle kiss.
2007-04-24 19:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by james i 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
All the decent women their age are taken, so they hit on the young ones that are available.
2007-04-24 22:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by clairejgray1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many younger gay guys like older men and aren't nearly as superficial and vain as you are.
2007-04-24 23:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in my forties. Can I buy ya drink, hot young thang? (of course, since you're under 21, it will have to be a Snapple.)
2007-04-25 06:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋